This is one of a few blogs that were published by Yoga Girl at her website at http://flr101.blogspot.com. This site is now offline but all credit goes to her.
I was going to talk about moving forward to this six week schedule. I’ve heard that at four to eight weeks it might be possible to separate orgasm from ejaculation, but mostly I’d like to optimize his recovery time, especially through the winter. I thought I’d put it in context of a companion inventory that we had.
I’ll just include the meat that’s relevant here:
Are you still masturbating, pulling on your weenie? (without ejaculation of course)
It’s just not stimulating, and it’s a huge let down after being inside you.
That’s neat to hear. Who would have thought that masturbation behavior could be put on extinction like that. So I’m your sole form of stimulation now?
Yeah, about 99%.
You know I’ve floated this six week thing. What do you think?
Please, please, please don’t do that. I think things are fine.
I know they’re fine. I’m the girl riding your face receiving orgasm after orgasm, remember? Our passion is great, and I’m one well fucked woman, but there are other reasons.
The major reason is for your health. Your testosterone is low normal, and I don’t want to have to give you supplemental testosterone. Your natural testosterone production will just shut down if I give that to you. We already know that testosterone can increase 150% of normal after seven day of retaining. I’d like to see your level at 800 or more. Plus there is also the maintaining of your Zinc. Most people are zinc deficient which really affects the immune system and leaves people more vulnerable to getting disease and cancers. Getting Zinc in your system isn’t as easy as just taking a supplement because it can be hard to absorb, and you lose Zinc with ejaculation. Supplements help, but you also want to maintain what you have. Your prostate needs that zinc. Plus you’re getting older, and we need to start thinking differently. They say over 50, it takes 8 days to recover from ejaculation. Under 30, it only takes 3 days (eastern Tantra thinking, not allopathic medicine). Doing what we’re doing, you’re just treading water, barely keeping your head above water. You start to recover and bang you have an ejaculation in 5-7 and sometimes 3 days lately. Granted, your fairly fit, and look 30, but still.
Yeah, I hear that everyday from 20 different patients. You’re running in deficiency, sweetheart.
I’m fiiiiine! Please! (Truly in denial)
Sometimes you just need to eat your vegetables, baby. I want to move to this six week thing for your own good.
Don’t what? Don’t care about you? Don’t love you?
We’re going to do this. You know we need too. Understood?
Really? I don’t want any accidents, because that’s a big set back when your at week three and then you spill, and we’re at square one all over again. If you start to spill, I’m just going to do the testicle tug thing I learned from that Tantra guy. When we did it on your E-Day, it shut off that spurt like turning off a water faucet. So when we have sex, I want you to tie off your testicles so they’re like one tennis ball between your legs so I can get to them, and grab them quickly and shut it down if it starts. If I can shut it down quickly, I’m not going to count it as an ejaculation. We have to start taking spills much more seriously because with a six week schedule that’s a huge set back. If you spill, and I have to shut it down (which is already a negative experience), there will still be a strapping, but it will be worse than what I have done in the past. I’m rooting for you to be successful, and want you to succeed, baby. But you know the consequence will need to be severe. Severe enough that it will penetrate your brain when you’re out of your mind during sex on week 4. We need to have an agreed to plan.
(If your interested in the tug, go learn about it. I’m not teaching it. I don’t recommend it. You or your partner could damage yourself. DON’T DO IT. I’m only sharing our experience)
Your going to do this. Tears are not going to work (He’s starting to tear up). Now get on your back I want to go for a ride. (Sorry, it seems like I’m ignoring his pain, but he has his pants off during these inventories, and it was throbbing pretty good and starting to leak, and I just can’t resist a throbbing leaky cock. If pain and sorrow get him that hard, I’m going to give him plenty of it. Again, probably the natural state of man and part of their programming. The god of love lives in a state of need, and that’s the state he’s going to be in for the next six weeks. You’re welcome, baby.)
(While I’m riding, I make sure to tell him how big and hard his cock is, and how great it feels to have his throbbing piece of steel between my legs, and how he’s the best fuck I’ve ever had. He needs that crass reinforcement at this point.)
I see this six week schedule as a fundamental step in our evolution. Sex is a form of meditation for me. When he lies beneath me moaning no longer moving half unconscious and I just rotate my hips working that shaft of steel, I draw energy from it. He fuels me. He’s no longer a man, but a biological energy source that feeds me, and I cycle it back to him. In a sense, I feel that I’m upgrading him to version 2.0 with this six week schedule. When he’s lying underneath me just moaning barely able to think, we become one creature in thought and purpose. I want him filled with Jing and chi, and we’ll use these highly benevolent ascension energies to transcend together accelerating our spiritual evolution.
Now, he doesn’t have to consciously participate with this intent for it to happen. I believe B.F. Skinner when he said that only observable behavior is worth studying even though he acknowledged the existence of the mind. It’s just that the inner workings of the mind can’t be measured, hence why all psychology is BS before he turned an unscientific field into a repeatable science. If you want to attain a certain inner state, model the outer state. Coincidentally, Stanislavsky took that approach about acting in using physicality to trigger an emotional state.
Basically in my hypothesis, I’m saying I can condition spirituality. I already see it in just him practicing retention with no inner intent. By enforcing retention, I already see inner changes. Really, all religious ritual is a physicality designed to produce an inner emotional state. Force the outer and the inner will follow. Or in this case, grab them by the balls and their hearts and minds will follow. Can a typical western male become an eastern Taoist guru sex machine without even cracking a book just through reinforcement and shaping behavior. I’m going to find out. If you want to be a Taoist guru sex machine, act like one on the outside and inner changes just might follow.
Thanks to my hubby for help with the website …and the orgasms!
DISCLAIMER: This blog depicts the loving consensual agreed upon relationship between the author and her husband. Every relationship should be safe, sane, and consensual. Anything else is illegal. This blog is not meant to substitute for your personal due diligence and is not to be taken as medical advice.