When your guy is locked up, communication about his state is important. His level of desire and the importance and urgency of ejaculation is first and foremost on his mind. The rules that you establish together most likely prevent him from constantly pestering you about his current condition and his perceived urgency to “get off”. This is an incredibly simple and fun way to tease and communicate with him at the same time.
The system is simple, you ask him periodically how he is doing. His response should be a number from one to ten. The numeric system represents the urgency for release with a one being on the low end and a ten being on the high end. This gives you an understanding of his current state and you can request his state before and after brushing by him and teasing him to see how effective it was.
For example, a one would equate to the feeling of having recently ejaculated with little to no urgency to ejaculate again. An eight or nine on the other hand represents a very tough mental spot where he is having trouble focusing on anything but his release. Make it clear that a ten should almost never be used or his inclination will be to say ten every time you ask, making the system worthless. A normal answer is expected to be in the three to six range.
- 1 to 4 – Little to No Arousal
You should work on teasing him and keeping him in a constant state of arousal. He is not aroused at this point.
- 5-6 – Sweet Spot
This is a sweet spot, you are doing things right. Make sure you are teasing him from time to time to take this to the 7-8 range.
- 7-8 – Heightened arousal
This means that you are doing an excellent amount of teasing. It is unlikely that you will be able to keep him in this range but try to bump him up here as frequently as you can.
- 9-10 – Extreme arousal
Let him simmer and allow his body to calm down. I rarely say ignore your man and stop teasing but you can safely back off and let him go down a level or two.
It is incredibly important that he be honest with his current level of arousal and not the amount of arousal that he has felt through the day. Giving his arousal peaks and valleys will keep his body guessing. For those of you that go to the gym, this is like interval training for his hormonal balance.
Quick Friday blog today, hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!
I’m curious. Have you noticed your husband giving higher than average numbers or lower numbers since your ping pong friend entered the equation?
Hmm. I haven’t noticed much of a difference actually. If anything, I suppose it would be higher than normal but not by much.