The perception of oral sex as inherently submissive or dominant depends on the individuals involved, their preferences, and the dynamics of their relationship. Oral sex, like any sexual activity, can be experienced and interpreted in various ways, and it’s essential to consider the context and dynamics of the situation.
In many cases, individuals perceive giving oral sex as an act of submission or dominance based on societal norms, personal beliefs, or power dynamics within the relationship. However, it’s important to recognize that these perceptions are subjective and can vary widely among different individuals and cultures.
For some people, giving oral sex may be an expression of love, intimacy, or pleasure without any connotations of submission or dominance. Similarly, receiving oral sex can be a mutually enjoyable and consensual experience that does not necessarily imply dominance or submission.
Within a cuckold relationship where the woman has a bull or boyfriend, any sexual act from the cuckold husband toward the bull is an act of submission. While your dynamic may or may not demonstrate humiliation, it will demonstrate loving acceptance and submission from the cuck toward the wife and the bull. One key thing here is consent, if your husband does not consent to this act then it should be off the table. Pro Tip: After a few days locked your husband may be a bit more malleable when you propose the idea.
- Your husband should present to the bull in a way that stresses the inequality between him and the bull. The bull is far more likely to relax and enjoy oral if you make it clear that your husband is sucking him as an act of submission and acceptance of you both.
- Your husband should kneel and undress your bull. Go slow and show the bull that your husband is willingly accepting and not rushing. Your bull may not be bisexual and using your husband for this purpose is akin to using him for a blowjob. If your bull is bi, he may want your husband to rub his body and show him physical attention. If the sight of your husband beneath him, a dark room or perhaps focusing his gaze on you while your husband pleases him orally.
- Once your bull’s cock is in your husband’s mouth, your husband should put his hands behind his back. He should use his oral skills exclusively to stimulate him. Your husband has one job and if your bull wanted a hand job he would have stayed home.
- Your bull may choose to put his hand on the back of your husband’s head to direct him for his greatest pleasure. Acknowledging that your husband is new to oral is entirely fine and your bull can treat him as a beginner. He should stimulate the head, the coronal ridge and the entire length of the shaft. We will make the assumption that your husband has a gag reflex and your bull is on the larger side, pushing your husband to stretch his comfort zone will continually help him accomodate more of your bull each time.
- In contrast to a typical cuckold scenario where the cuck silently observes you in a sexual scenario with your bull, you have a more active role in this situation. Your role in this situation is an active participant where you are part of your cuck’s submission to you and your bull.
- Your feedback and verbalization is always appreciated, you know what your bull likes and you can help guide your husband to your bull’s erogenous zones. You know if your bull likes his balls played with or where he feels the most sensation. Your comments will not be distracting, in fact it will add to the experience for both of them. Adding your words and even your moans when something is especially arousing or sexually fascinating is a wonderful way to expand on the scenario.
- Passing the key to your cuck’s cock cage to your bull can be a wonderfully symbolic ownership. Talking about they key and your cuck’s locked bits can be great banter between you and the bull while your husband does his work.
- When your bull is ready to cum, you are familiar with his breathing and the way his body moves. Your husband should let him ejaculate in his mouth or throat and continue stimulating your bull’s penis through his climax and beyond. Let your bull tell your husband when he is finished and push your husband off when he is through with him.
- Your husband should wait silently until your bull has fully recovered from his climax before swallowing your bull’s semen letting your bull know that he accepts and enjoyed the experience.
There is no way around it, watching two men together is hot and this type of scenario is incredible to watch. There may be times when you are working late, traveling or otherwise occupied when your bull needs relief and you are not available for him. The ability to call a favor from your cuck to take care of your bull’s needs and is a wonderful way support your dynamic and keep your bull satiated even when you can’t attend to his needs.
Ultimately, the significance and meaning of oral sex within a relationship are determined by the individuals involved and the dynamics they establish together. It’s essential for partners to communicate openly, establish boundaries, and prioritize mutual respect and consent in all sexual activities. It is important to note that participation in any sexual activity, including those involving cuckoldry, should be consensual and based on clear communication and mutual agreement between all parties involved. Consent, respect, and boundaries are essential components of any healthy sexual relationship or fantasy exploration. This isn’t a very hot fantasy if your cuck isn’t excitedly willing to do the bidding of you and your bull.
If you’re into the cuckold scene, this makes total sense. As long as everyone is comfortable, full participation is the way to go. As a bi guy, maybe I need to reconsider my stand on cuckolding. lol. Always looking for a way to put my mouth where my desire is.
Most men (myself included) find this repulsive, but we must be mindful of the fact that many men enjoy seeing 2 women making love. Because of this locked up males in female led relationships involving cuckolding must be prepared to do what SHE says. In addition, she is entitled to give the key to your chastity cage to her bull which adds an extra level of humiliation for the locked up male, because he must now obtain permission from both dominant female and her bull before being released. It would be interesting to know how many locked up males are in this situation.:)
“Because of this locked up males in female led relationships involving cuckolding must be prepared to do what SHE says. In addition, she is entitled to give the key to your chastity cage to her bull which adds an extra level of humiliation for the locked up male, because he must now obtain permission from both dominant female and her bull before being released.”
This is porn-fueled wank fodder. I disagree that this is how it is or must be. If the agreement by the submissive male to utterly subjugate his boundaries in a loving FLR/WLM was discussed and agreed upon prior … that’s one thing. Just being in a D/s relationship with a woman, and just because many men like to fantasize about two women “making love”, doesn’t automatically mean that “… must be prepared to do what she says.” And no, she isn’t unilaterally entitled to give the key to her bull. That’s ridiculous. If that’s the scenario they choose and agree on, then so be it. Even then, great care must be taken to ensure that agreement by the husband is genuine and isn’t something he feels compelled to agree to “or else”.
Just my opinion … I could be wrong.
This is a fascinating blog from Emma that piques my curiosity. It’s probably fair to say that most men find two women getting it off a pretty hot topic and I suspect a lot of women feel the same way when two guys get together, as intimated by Emma. I consider myself to be mega straight, i.e. not gay or bi and don’t have any desire for such a relationship. However, over the years as my male chastity kink has grown I have found myself fantasising over having my cock locked by a woman then being ‘forced’ by her to give oral sex to another guy. I’d probably be rubbish at it but I know what I like and if I did the same to another guy I feel as though I might be able to do at least a half-decent job. In reality it’s never going to happen and I’d probably run a mile but I do wonder what I would do if the situation was to become a possibility. Where blow jobs are concerned I guess I’m bi-curious – at least in my dreams.
“I consider myself to be mega straight, i.e. not gay or bi and don’t have any desire for such a relationship. However, over the years as my male chastity kink has grown I have found myself fantasising over having my cock locked by a woman then being ‘forced’ by her to give oral sex to another guy.”
This is true for me as well, except for the fantasizing about being required to suck another man’s cock part. There is a difference between wanting to suck a guy’s cock for the sake of doing it and being required by your Mistress to do it because she thinks it is hot.
As I explained it to Emma, none of what she wrote about was something I am into. So then what is the explanation for my rock-hard cock after reading it? Perhaps you’ve explained much of it @soundsofdelight
“Pro Tip: After a few days locked your husband may be a bit more malleable when you propose the idea.”
I really hope that this statement is just meant to be subversive and playful, or maybe a fappy fantasy.
Because taken seriously, it is NOT “consensual and based on clear communication and mutual agreement.” It’s an overt admission to using manipulation and duress with the intent to degrade.
As an analogy, a starving woman may agree to perform work for you if she knows that you can supply her food. However, in order for legitimate consent to be granted, discussions of expectations pertaining to the work must occur when the woman is in a healthy and lucid state of mind.
This statement endorses sexual exploitation and is NOT healthy leadership. It’s a Female LED relationship, right?
I don’t know that I fully agree with your analysis that using sexual hunger to push boundaries is unhealthy manipulation. Sexual denial in and of itself is about increasing sex drive and fetishes. The intent is that conversations MUST still happen and someone who is sexually charged might be more willing to agree to certain kinks. Full conversation and understanding that he is in a sexually starved/denied state.
A female led relationship can involve using his sexuality as a tool to mold and guide his behavior and openness for discussion about certain situations. A grey are to be sure but the grey can turn to white if proper conversations happen. I’d be interested in entertaining more conversation about what you think makes up healthy denial aspects of a female led relationship.
To avoid this very thing, this type of confusion, Mistress K. and I established early that we would establish limits. There are hard limits and soft limits. So, in essence, anything goes that isn’t a hard limit and if it is a soft limit, there would be discussion and agreement before that “soft” limit activity was desired. As such and after communication and agreement, it would either become a hard limit or no limit at all, and we proceed accordingly.
For example, there are things I’m not too excited to do (suck cock, cuckolding, sissification, eat cum, etc.). Those things and others are soft limits, so if my Wife came to me and said she wanted to fuck someone else, and she wanted me to suck that someone else’s cock, we’d talk about it to establish parameters, and it would happen. It would have absolutely nothing to do with whether or not I was horny, or caged for a long time (kind of a moot point because I’m always caged), because we would’ve talked it through and come to an arrangement.
We feel this ‘policy’ significantly reduces the chances of there being any exploitation, although certainly that possibility would always exist. There has to be some level of trust that it won’t I suppose.
I wholeheartedly agree that it would be wrong to mind-fuck someone (in this case perhaps a husband who has become too afraid to not agree with his wife) into doing anything or living a life they don’t want. I don’t believe that changes in a marriage that come from keeping a husband caged, denying his orgasms, spanking him, and the like, are outside the realm of what a WLM marriage is about in the first place. After all, we’re talking about “Evolving Your Man”, aren’t we?
Hi.
I agree with you. I think chastity could be a way for helping him to convert his greys into white.
He may need a bit of “help”.