The Cuck My Life podcast is an absolute gem for anyone in a cuckold relationship, thinking about exploring it, or just curious about female-led dynamics. Each episode offers very real conversations, real-life stories, and practical advice that go beyond the surface of what cuckolding means. The hosts are very relatable, balancing humor and insight, which makes the topic approachable and day I say mainstream—no matter your experience level.
I love the way they address the emotional side of things, from cuck angst to compersion, and everything in between. They tackle tough questions and awkward moments with an easygoing vibe that’s all about normalizing a taboo dynamic. It’s very much in line with what we discuss here on Evolving Your Man, especially when it comes to deepening intimacy, exploring sexual dominance, and navigating the balance of power in a female-led relationship.
Whether you’re looking for fresh ideas, more ways to empower yourself and your partner, or just some fun stories that will make you laugh and think, Cuck My Life is the perfect companion to your journey. You’ll definitely come away with new insights into what cuckolding is. Whether you use the podcast to as a way to consider cuckolding as dynamic in your relationship or decide that this is a fun listen but not something for you and your partner, I highly recommend giving them a listen. Here is a quick Q&A with the cucks over at cuck my life.
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With no further ado, here is the crew of the cuck my life podcast!
Introduce yourselves, who are the voices behind cuck my life?
We are Hopeful, Aussie, Poor Boy, and Hubs. We are a group of friends who helped form a dm room. In that room, we talk cuck topics, support one another, and help each other navigate this special but complicated lifestyle. The conversations led us to believe other people might benefit. That’s why we started the Cuck My Life Podcast. We felt relieved to have some of our conversations. We wanted to offer that relief to others.
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What is the goal or the elevator pitch for the cuck my life podcast, what are you hoping to bring to the world of cuckdom?
We hope to normalize conversations about the topic. “Normalizing cuckolding” is what we are all about.
What’s the wildest topic you’ve covered on the podcast that had your audience buzzing?
Our most popular episode remains our “how to talk to your wife about this lifestyle.” That’s why a sign of our listeners tune in to our show. We are about to drop season two. We hope it will have some memorable episodes. Season one had great guests, some funny conversations, and a lot of info! We have improved over time. Our sound is getting better, and we are more confident in our product. We can’t wait to see how it goes.
I’ve noticed that you have a knack for keeping the conversation and not overly focused on the kink. I fall into the kink trap sometimes myself because it is fascinating and titillating. How do you keep the content spicy while balancing respect for each couple’s dynamic?
We say this constantly, everyone does this differently. All ways of doing this that make both members of the couple happy are good ways of doing this. We stole Walt Whitman’s quote from the guys at Ted Lasso, “be curious, not judgmental. We live by that credo. We respect all the myriad ways of doing this. We like the titillation. If you listen to our visit with Jessi Black and her husband Richard, amazing humans, their episode is very sexy. Lots of talk about their dynamic and how she does that. All of that is valid. It’s part of our lifestyle. This is a relationship style, but it all comes back to being a sexual relationship style.
If you could have any guest on the podcast, who would it be?
We don’t have a “white whale” kind of guest. That human we would move heaven and earth to interview. We are always grateful when people agree to come talk to us. For us, it’s not about “who,” necessarily. It’s about the story they have to tell. For us, smaller guests are just as important because they’ve got a story to tell, too. In the end, if our guests feel respected and heard during our conversations, it’s a successful interview. If we invite you, we are definitely interested in your story, and we think others will be, too.
How do you address the emotional ups and downs, like cuckold angst or compersion, in your episodes?
Well, that’s what this is for us, therapy. We address our personal ups and downs by talking to one another. We are bringing those conversations to our podcast because we think others will benefit. We had a nice opportunity to talk, privately, to Dan Savage. He’s the king of sex pods. The best in the business, and he told us, “you’re helping people.” It was a thrill that he was willing to listen to a few of our episodes. For us, the therapy sessions are frequent. We hope the ones we put out help others, too.
Is there a particular episode where you felt the dynamic between bull, cuck, and wife was so perfectly balanced and harmonious, you couldn’t stop thinking about it?
Mr. Bull visited with us. It was just him, but his grasp of this lifestyle and what it takes to be successful was amazing. He really blew us away with his patience, knowledge, confidence, and ability. He had us looking up flights to LA. It was a wonderful conversation.
Have any female listeners shared how their perspective shifted after tuning into the show?
No, that’s not happened, explicitly. We have talked to a large number of women who listen to the show, and we try very hard to make our pod “female friendly.” We think women need easy entry points to educations and information on this lifestyle, and we hope we are one of those points. We did hear from a woman, a while back. She wanted us to help her husband. He’s since joined the group, found community with us, and enhanced our little “cuck space.” We actually hope to have them on the show, soon. She reached out to us via email when she heard our show. We think that’s amazing. The idea that we could be seen as helpful, huge deal to us.
What advice would you give to couples who want to dip their toes into cuckolding but are nervous about feelings popping up?
Nerves are just that, nerves. If you’re worried about anything that relates to this lifestyle, you need to communicate about it. You need to be able to discuss even complicated topics with each other. We know cucks whose wives have fallen in love with their bulls. Feelings happen. They’re only a problem if you cannot discuss them in your primary relationship. This is a high emotional iq relationship style. You need to be on one another’s team, period.
In your opinion, what’s the secret sauce that makes a cuckolding relationship thrive?
Communication. Being able to talk about complicated things like sexual kink, leads to being able to talk about whether the window is up or down as you sleep. It makes complicated conversation for vanilla folks a breeze, because we know and trust one another so much better. * How do you think podcasts like yours are shifting societal views on non-traditional relationships? Do you think that a podcast about cuckolding is a step to making alternative relationships like cuckolding more mainstream acceptable? Gosh, we really hope so. That’s the goal. Normalize Cuckolding! We don’t expect everyone to “suddenly” get it, but we do hope people will be less judgmental about the sex they’re not being asked to have. All of us feel closer and more in sync with ourselves AND our partners. That cannot be a bad thing. Sex is only part of this relationship style, but it is definitely a part, and no one should be condemned for their consensual sexual exploits with adults. We don’t have enough juice to mainstream this lifestyle, ourselves, but we like to think we are part of a community that is trying to get the word out.
What’s your favorite part about getting behind the mic and talking about this steamy topic every week?
The idea that we are making some people feel less alone, less isolated, less “weird.” That’s what we love. We also love one another, a great deal. It’s enough for us to just have these fun conversations with each other. Throw a great sexy guest in there, and it’s even more fun. If you’ve been listening, we hope what comes through the most is that we are having fun, and we have real relationships.
Let’s talk cuckold erotica, do you have a favorite author?
BR Saiph, for Hopeful. He’s a great guy and his wife is a smoke show!
I get lots of questions about “how do I make my wife want a cuckold relationship” and while I think that premise is entirely wrong, I do think it would be beneficial for a non-kink focused message about cuckold relationships would be beneficial to many husbands and wives.
Would you be interested in a podcast about that? It would be very popular with my readers especially those already in female led relationships. I like to think we talk about that regularly. That’s this relationship style is, just that, a relationship style. It still takes work, and probably more work. Plus, in FLR you will do an uneven amount of the chores. It’s our opinion that if you want this lifestyle, you shouldn’t wait until she agrees to something, you should start serving her now. Give her the attention, do the extra chores, wait on her, bring her flowers, lean into making her your number one, if you want her to be your number one! You don’t need her to tell you what to do to know what she wants. Show her you are serious. This is about her pleasure, period. What you get in return is not important. Serve her! Show her with actions, not negotiations.
Can we expect any super sexy or *scandalous* episodes coming soon that you can tease for us?
We have some wonderful guests coming up, and some great conversations. Just to name a few:
On the Rocks Girl. She’s wonderful. Her partner cheated on her, and that opened the relationship. One night she brought home a boyfriend, and his end closed up! You’ll love her story!
Mocha Honey! An amazing African-American woman living the heck out of this lifestyle. She can’t be pinned down to one thing, ever! You can, however, buy her panties if you’re interested. Another sexy conversation.
The Bull Ring! We brought together two very experienced Bulls, and 2 burst on the scene Bulls to discuss what it means to be a real Bull in this lifestyle. Mr. Bull is an inspiration. SoCal seasoning has great stories!
The Hot Wife King brings boatload of experience, and he drips knowledge in this episode!
Moses (baby dreads) brings youthful enthusiasm, and a “eager to get that rep” energy! Together they talked about a huge number of issues from the Bull Perspective. They were all amazing. You won’t want to miss the “Bull Ring!” It’s gonna be lit!
What do you think are the biggest misconceptions about cuckolding that you’ve had to address on the show or in your own lives?
First, we walk among you. You never know who is in, unless you’re let in. The rest of the time, we are all just regular people going to our jobs, planning for our futures, and dealing with family life. Misconception: cucks are weak. Reality: we are smart, kind, open minded, and stronger than you think we are. Cuck’s not an insult. It’s a badge of honor.
What’s your vision for the future of Cuck My Life? Do you see any corporate sponsors like Nike or AT&T lining up to sponsor you?
We are opening a KoFi account where people can support us, we are developing merchandise and a way to deliver it. We are exploring options. We doubt “Skittles” will ever really sponsor us, but it would be nice to have some money to put into the show! Po needs a computer. We never want anyone to feel like we are in this for the money, but it is a lot of effort and time, if we can offset that by offering more of a product you like, we are open to that. Essentially, we are just thrilled anyone is listening. It’s been a blast so far.
If you’re on the hunt for a podcast that delves into the real, raw, and often hilarious world of cuckolding, then Cuck My Life is an absolute must-listen. It’s filled with personal stories, expert insights, and practical advice that take you beyond the bedroom, really diving into the emotional and relationship dynamics at play. While my blog isn’t solely focused on cuckolding, Evolving Your Man is all about exploring relationship and sexual dynamics in fun, empowering ways—so this podcast is right up our alley!
The cuck crew at Cuck My Life has some exciting episodes coming up, and trust me, you won’t want to miss them. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or seasoned pros, they’re about to drop some fresh, thought-provoking content that will have you laughing, learning, and maybe even rethinking what power and intimacy can look like in a relationship.
And hey, while we’re talking podcasts, if you have a favorite podcast, author, or even a breakfast cereal that you’re obsessed with, drop a note in the comments below! I love sharing new ideas with the Evolving Your Man community, and we can give your favorites a well-deserved boost. After all, this blog is about growing together, so let’s share what makes your mornings, evenings, and your relationships, even better!
The entire FLR, Femdom, and Cuck arena seems to be about 95% male participation. This mirrors the subject of chess…until the Netflix series The Queens Gambit in 2020, which saw an explosion of female participation. Maybe Netflix needs to do a mini-series on FLR and cuckolding in order to get women to open up and talk about it. 🙂
It’s our opinion that if you want this lifestyle, you shouldn’t wait until she agrees to something, you should start serving her now. Give her the attention, do the extra chores, wait on her, bring her flowers, lean into making her your number one, if you want her to be your number one!
This should be an anthem! Moreover, this works not only in the dynamics of FLR, this is how any type of relationship between people works in general. Reality can only be created, otherwise you will have to play by someone else’s rules.
This idea is banal, it was expressed by the Ancient Greeks, but it is still not taught in schools!
Unfortunately, many guys just want fancy fucking when they fantasize about femdom. Only a few want to serve sincerely. I wish all respectable women to get these diamonds, bypassing the traps of the bad guys :))
The entire FLR, Femdom, and Cuck arena seems to be about 95% male participation. This mirrors the subject of chess…until the Netflix series The Queens Gambit in 2020, which saw an explosion of female participation. Maybe Netflix needs to do a mini-series on FLR and cuckolding in order to get women to open up and talk about it. 🙂
This should be an anthem! Moreover, this works not only in the dynamics of FLR, this is how any type of relationship between people works in general. Reality can only be created, otherwise you will have to play by someone else’s rules.
This idea is banal, it was expressed by the Ancient Greeks, but it is still not taught in schools!
Unfortunately, many guys just want fancy fucking when they fantasize about femdom. Only a few want to serve sincerely. I wish all respectable women to get these diamonds, bypassing the traps of the bad guys :))