Not all orgasms are created equal.
If this subject is unsuitable for EYM I apologise and Emma can unceremoniously give it the boot.
Somewhere on this site (and I've no idea where 'cos I can't find it again) there was a link to a questionnaire concerning sexual behaviour, likes, dislikes etc. I came out as being around 73% vanilla and 70% submissive. I reckon that's about right as I'm a bit of an old fart but I'm definitely open to experimenting and new ideas.
I've messed around with ball stretching, anal plugs, urethral sounding, and even a bit of catheter play, though the latter is a little risky and probably not a sensible idea. It still felt good though. However, all were solo activities and without a participating partner with whom to share the experience there was/is very little point in my continuing with any of them.
However, an activity I do enjoy solo is e-stimming. It would be more enjoyable if MsWife would take the reins on this one but I'll settle for what I have. I've never experienced a prostate orgasm so have no idea what they feel like and I don't really know what a ruined orgasm is. All my orgasms, since the beginning of time, have always gone all the way. Therefore I have no idea what a ruined orgasm feels like either nor do I have any idea how the two compare with an e-stim orgasm.
For those who are not familiar with e-stim it's where two electrodes are attached to ones tackle and connected to a TENs device. When switched on, a pulsating electrical current passes through and weirdly stimulates the penis. From considerable personal experience I have found placing one of the electrodes (usually self-adhesive conducting pads) on my perineum and the other wrapped around the glans. By adjusting the power level and pulse rate I start off gently then increase the power until it becomes just a little too painful to endure then back off a fraction. As my cock becomes accustomed to the electrical stimulus I increase the power and pulse rate, poco a poco, until full power is reached. In my case this can take up to an hour or more by which time I'm begging to cum. Eventually I do and depending upon how long I have retained previously a volume of ejaculate is produced but despite the very intense feelings it's weird not to see 10 litres of cum shooting 100 metres into the air. It's barely a few ml dribbling out the end of my cock and I'm not even sporting a hard-on. Once the show has ended my cock continues to tingle for a quarter of an hour or so adding another pleasant dimension to the whole scene.
If you've never had an E-stim orgasm then you won't know just how mind-blowingly different from the norm they are. They are amazing, beyond amazing in fact and you should definitely put one on your bucket list. Maybe one day I'll be treated to a prostate orgasm then I'll be able to make a direct comparison for myself. For a possible bit of naughtiness, if you place the electrode on your glans, lock your cock then adhere the other to your perineum, without getting an erection and without escaping the cage you can have an hours worth of hands-free stimulation, including half an hours worth of begging to cum and an amazing orgasm. Whether 'legally' with the assistance of your KH (holding the power supply of course) or illicitly under the cover of darkness.
Having had an unauthorised E-stim orgasm a couple of nights ago and feeling a tad guilty about it, I am still curious about prostate orgasm. Not sure how to go about it I've been scouring the web for info. and came across a site that might be of interest to others.
Estim is my favorite guilty caged pleasure. I’m self locked wife knows. She doesn’t play much. At any rate. I place a electrode near my anus. Basically over my prostrate. Place a urethra sound in place as attach leads. Start slow and work my way up to high setting. It’s an experience with an incredible amount of pleasure. When I push the the dial to max Seminal fluid just leaks out. With or without an erection. I’m so addicted to the experience that I have used it before work when getting dressed just to feel the extra tingle without Cumming. I have convinced the wife to run the dial a time or two.
Estim is my favorite guilty caged pleasure. I’m self locked wife knows. She doesn’t play much.
Since unauthorised orgasms are considered as cheating and like me you are self locking the only person one is cheating is oneself. This kind of defeats the object of self locking. I've e-stimmed once whilst being locked up and felt really bad about it afterwards. I've decided to 'allow' myself one a month.