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Hi! Today is going on 21 days of confinement (getting ready for Locktober, raised the rates), so I can think only about my wife. How can I brighten her life? What can I offer?
As it happens, I've managed to automate some of my work routine and have about 2 extra hours a day. I'm gladly looking forward to investing it in pleasures for my wife.
But what to do when dinner is on the table, all the dishes are already in the dryer, the floors are shiny, the clothes are on the shelves, beloved's back has already been massaged twice a day morning and evening, and even the laces of her sneakers are untied so she can comfortably put it on in the morning?
Good idea: ask her directly. I assure you, I've done it before! Oh, and the element of surprise is so spicy: doing something discreetly so you can eventually expose it to your sweetheart. Isn't that cool? But... what?
I propose we make this topic a checklist of things a good submissive can do for his mistress. Please, no erotic fantasies, you will fulfill it with each other.
Here I want to prioritize not my penis, but really useful actions, which will please the woman, take off her burden.
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You can write not only what is accepted in your couple, but also abstract ideas that can work. I'd like to dedicate this topic to routines, not big surprises like pirate treasure hunts and hot air balloon rides (although write about those too).
Let's get the list started:
- cooking,
- dishwashing,
- housecleaning, taking out the trash,
- laundry/ironing,
- massage,
- unlacing sneakers (it's so cute, really),
- help with showering, grooming.
It's your turn!
Posted : 20/09/2024 11:57 am
There are different types of task lists. The book "Fair Play" is an excellent resource for two-sided conversation, but could be used to help you establish what her minimum standard of care is for different tasks.
When I decided to up my game, I downloaded a task list from MollyMaid. I guess I could roll into being a sissy maid some day, but maybe not while the kids are still little (to many conversations with a close conservative family). Here are some suggestions from the top of my head):
Kitchen (top to bottom): wipe down the high cupboards, dust (shelves, windows, and above the refrigerator), clean the microwave/stove/oven, clear/wipe the counters, do all dishes, wipe the lower cupboards, clean the floor boards, and sweep/mop the floor.
Bathrooms: clean mirror, wipe out sink, wipe counter, organize storage as required, clean toilet, clean shower (under soap/bottles too), clean floor, clean mats, and remove/replace trash. Replace shower liner occasionally.
Bedrooms: Check for cobwebs, clean blinds, dust surfaces, make the bed (wash bedding), general straightening/organizing, and laundry (collect/wash/put away, including any hand wash items).
Other rooms: Straighten, dust, vacuum, mop, carpet cleaner... depends on your place.
Of course, I recommend Emma's articles, like House Husband: Setting Expectations With a Written Agreement. I also like the articles on Brassiered.
Hope this helps. Good luck serving.
Posted : 26/09/2024 1:09 am
There are different types of task lists. The book "Fair Play" is an excellent resource for two-sided conversation, but could be used to help you establish what her minimum standard of care is for different tasks.
When I decided to up my game, I downloaded a task list from MollyMaid. I guess I could roll into being a sissy maid some day, but maybe not while the kids are still little (to many conversations with a close conservative family). Here are some suggestions from the top of my head):
Kitchen (top to bottom): wipe down the high cupboards, dust (shelves, windows, and above the refrigerator), clean the microwave/stove/oven, clear/wipe the counters, do all dishes, wipe the lower cupboards, clean the floor boards, and sweep/mop the floor.
Bathrooms: clean mirror, wipe out sink, wipe counter, organize storage as required, clean toilet, clean shower (under soap/bottles too), clean floor, clean mats, and remove/replace trash. Replace shower liner occasionally.
Bedrooms: Check for cobwebs, clean blinds, dust surfaces, make the bed (wash bedding), general straightening/organizing, and laundry (collect/wash/put away, including any hand wash items).
Other rooms: Straighten, dust, vacuum, mop, carpet cleaner... depends on your place.
Of course, I recommend Emma's articles, like House Husband: Setting Expectations With a Written Agreement. I also like the articles on Brassiered.
Hope this helps. Good luck serving.
Posted : 26/09/2024 1:10 am
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