Tease and denial
I upped the ante on my boyfriend as some of my teasing has been stale. This last weekend I decided to do a few things the first was I let him grab my ass suck on my boobies and stroke himself all at once for a minute. If he came great if not another month in chastity was our deal. He didn’t cum. I then applied some numbing cream to his cock put on some restraints and pulled out a cock extending penis sleeve also condoms. I then began riding his cock but he couldn’t feel anything he was free to fuck but not to cum and I loved it. It brought a quaking orgasm. Once he said the numbing cream was wearing off I waited for him to fit back into his cage while he licked me for orgasm #2. Then for the finale I caged him in his spiked cage while I road my favorite strap he had his bhands back and throughout all this I teased him and told him to imagine what it’d feel like if it was your cock inbetween my tits or in my pussy then I’d remind him he’s locked away and twerk a little on him to at points and say in a cock cage, I’d also remind him the spikes were digging in and to focus on my pussy. After my third orgasm I put him back in our normal cage and he cuddled me and gave me sweet kisses, he even thanked me for denying him and said he was glad he didn’t cum when I let him touch himself. We’ve made a lot of progress since starting chastity and he’s come along way from trying to escape he’s much more sensitive and attentive.
Sounds like an awesome session
Wow, that’s intense. Sounds incredibly fun!
Taking control of what you want benefits the relationship! A well thought-out activity.
Awesome @Briattany – thanks for sharing! What a surprise treat for your boyfriend – that would send me over the edge!
Could you share more details on the spiked cage? I’ve looked for something tolerable but didn’t have much luck. I think I tried Cali’s teeth which is a plastic insert that goes near the ring. Either the spikes were too long or too sharp or both! Yes, I was fighting arousal when trying to get it on but it didn’t even seem doable flaccid. I had to get it off after seconds. I'm up for pain, I could even be up for something that leaves a reminder, but I had to get that thing off. Before introducing something new to my wife, I experiment with it first. For the dog shock collar around my balls that she can control with her phone – she took to that like a duck to water. Let’s just say I never told her about the spikes ; ). I’d love to find something painful but tolerable.
Thanks again for sharing your story
@trophy-husband we have a cage that has inserts for spikes I can put a few in or many. They don’t hurt him when flaccid but he if he starts to try to grow in the cage then they will dig in which causes him some pain he usually moans from the spikes when we use them but I don’t think it’s ever drawn blood.
Hi Brittany it’s been awhile glad things are going good for you hope some of the advice I shared about my chastity experience worked. My lady recently locked me back up after an extended break to reconnect we kinda grew apart and didn’t like where the dynamic was going we reset and are really good and know what we each need and want this type of teasing is the best. My personal favorite is the chastity lap dance she gave me one last night and was teasing me about my horniness and then she had me use a strap on here when I begged for sex (thanks to the site for that devilish idea for me heavenly for her.) she simply said “oh baby I know you wanted sex I hope you enjoy it as she played with my cage. It was lots of fun.
It brought a quaking orgasm
I really like this description. Awesome!
I love your take charge attitude, so much fun!!!!
Yes I ended up not enforcing the whole month lol But at the time the idea was entertaining to see his disappointment in a month long lock up the sex we had last weekend was surprising for him and amazing for both of us definitely worth giving up on the month. I’ve learned with him after a couple months of me kinda unhappy due to what I felt was a betrayal of me ( his masturbation and porn) but my hope we could go back to how it used to be once he got over locking his cock the benefits became amazing and noticeable and how he is now reminds me of the first 6 months of dating he’s getting stronger he was always lean and attractive he’s getting sexier and motivating me to keep up on my workouts and when we have real sex now it’s that same passionate energy we had early on he’s so much more dominant but also loving when I unlock him it’s so hot. When he’s locked he is always there for me to and emotionally the connection has gotten so strong whether it be couple massage where we massage each other cuddling and chatting or other activities plus the teasing and flirting it’s all like extended foreplay at times and connecting all the time emotional. It’s completely changed our relationship I’m so happy and grateful to you Emma for the site and all the content you put here for us.
I don’t think it’s ever drawn blood.
No blood, no foul? 😉
We find that the locking and unlocking is a love ritual that makes him feel important. Maybe there are other rituals that can make him feel important to me but this one works for us!
Draw blood? Ouch!!!
Rituals are great & provocative. Sets the mood for both.
Rituals are great & provocative. Sets the mood for both.
I agree. Ms. K. and I have some wonderful daily rituals that we both love dearly.
Rituals are incredibly intimate for me as a submissive male as it shows how much she enjoys ownership.
I'm new here and we started to try FLR but I needs some help with Tease and Denial...
I'm trying to find my confidence
My other half very open all the time to try new things with me..
If any ladies could offer any tips !!!
I can understand men love FLR but I do want to try just find I always asking are you OK or asking am I doing this right and that kills the moment..
Any help would be welcome ?