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Hikaru
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As I read your blog I wonder why during my past I have always been attracted to gay or bisexual men. As a cis hetero female, this understandably problematic. I wonder if I am simply attracted to the potential of feeling like dominant partner in the relationship. I know that I absolutely love pegging and a man who does not enjoy pegging is a dealbreaker to me. I love dressing sexy with a strapon harness and surprising my guy with a little something extra sometimes. Thanks for a great site, keep the blogs coming. 

 
Posted : 30/01/2021 9:06 pm
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Therachel
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I can identify with this!

I have a few gay friends and find myself incredibly attracted to them. I always wondered if it was because they are unattainable due to their sexuality not being compatible with my gender or perhaps something more. I also enjoy watching gay porn because i feel like it is more believable. It is usually two fabulously fit guys and they both look like they are very very turned on. I like the mystery of who will be on top and sometimes I imagine myself in a male form while I am watching. I am very happy with my gender but I find it very erotic. I also love pegging so perhaps that is one reason why. Everything from flirting, smiling and playfulness just seems more genuine. 

I sometimes feel like straight men put on some manly facade and pretend they don't have emotions at all. What could be more unattractive? Gay men embrace their emotions and emotions make us human. I dated my husband for months before he would open up to me emotionally. Gay guys are more open and genuine and they want you to feel their joy, their pain, their happiness with them. Men who aren't afraid to open their hearts and feel something are sexy.

 

 
Posted : 31/01/2021 12:23 am
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Amina
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For me as an arabic women i love pegging as it's make me feel empowered. 

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Especially that we live in a male dominated societies i believe it makes them a better men and just eliminate their male ego. 

They always link the woman honor to her pussy so putting them in the same place will teach them how its feel. 

 
Posted : 31/01/2021 4:41 am
Hikaru
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@amina I think I heard that some middle eastern countries it is illegal to be openly gay! Do you have feelings about your husband's sensitive side? Is it the lack of male ego that you find attractive about pegging? Your comment makes it sound like pegging is like revenge. Is that what you intended?

 
Posted : 31/01/2021 10:42 am
Amina
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@hikaru not revenge but let's say teach them the gender equity the hard way. 

I have talked to many middle eastern submissive men on porn websites all of them agreed that they enjoy it as humiliation. As women are the weaker sex and how pegging feels like she overpowered them and took their "honer , manhood" and how its hurt their man ego or like they have been defeated as they have been raised in a male dominated countries. But yet they enjoy it lol.

Honestly it's made me think how men actually are the weaker sex i mean they believe it's humiliating yet they like it , now how easy to control a man through his lust? 

I know my husband was embarrassed but when he see that i can lead the relationship he will change his mind.

Its like breaking them mentally and build them up again as a better partner you have to be cruel at first. I think dealing with men here is different than white males.

 
Posted : 31/01/2021 11:14 am
Tamyra
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I finally had to register for this site because this is me 1000%. I have a gay friend and I fantasize about him when I masturbate sometimes. I am not in love with him but it is like a Will & Grace relationship and his emotional AVAILABILITY is such a turn on. Most men suppress their emotions. A question like HOW DOES IT MAKE YOU FEEL is the hardest thing they could ever have to answer. I don't know anything about middle eastern men but most men in Texas where I'm from are emotionally stunted for sure.

 
Posted : 31/01/2021 11:23 am
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Amina
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For example if a woman had sex before marriage here that's mean she has no honor they link the honor to her vagina. 

And that's just stupid how come the honor is linked to the body parts, when you peg them they will feel as they lost their honor but when my husband sees that i still respect him even when I'm in charge he will rethink it. 

It's cruel i know but its for the better.

 
Posted : 31/01/2021 11:30 am
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 Emma
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Welcome to the site @hikaru and @tamyra 

I too identify with this. The the gay community summarily rejects the notion that men should not have emotions. They embrace emotions and most gay men in my circle are as emotional as any woman that I know. In my opinion, this is a nature vs nurture thing and men who don't show emotions were stunted by parents, friends, siblings and teachers who shunned their emotional sides. This male emotional retardation is a complete byproduct of the boys don't cry mentality. Boys should cry and they shouldn't need to feel guilty about it when they do.

I love when my Kevin is upset and not ashamed to cry in front of me and comforting him brings me a tremendous amount of joy. I get emotional in front of him and he shows his emotional side to me. That is how a relationship and communication works. Body language and emotions can and should be so much more communicative than words. I really appreciate this post @hikaru

 
Posted : 31/01/2021 11:57 am
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