I fantasize about my hotwife cuckolding me. I want to see a bigger stronger man take my wife in front of me theres nothing I can do about it but watch until he busts. How can I get her to do it?
I agree with @alexandra ! We really don't have enough information here but from what you said, it sounds like you want to coerce your wife into having sex with a big strong man. Please work with your wife to find out her desires, fantasies and focus on what makes her tick. Forcing your pornhub fueled (as evidenced by your avatar) fantasy on your wife is now how a loving relationship works. Your wife's sexuality isn't a instrument of your bidding. If I misunderstood, please feel free to clarify but if I am mistaken in your intentions but I was your wife, I would have cause for concern.
I agree with @alexandra ! We really don't have enough information here but from what you said, it sounds like you want to coerce your wife into having sex with a big strong man. Please work with your wife to find out her desires, fantasies and focus on what makes her tick. Forcing your pornhub fueled (as evidenced by your avatar) fantasy on your wife is now how a loving relationship works. Your wife's sexuality isn't a instrument of your bidding. If I misunderstood, please feel free to clarify but if I am mistaken in your intentions but I was your wife, I would have cause for concern.
I also agree with @alexandra for the reasons very well stated by Emma!
"Forcing your pornhub fueled (as evidenced by your avatar) fantasy on your wife is now how a loving relationship works. Your wife's sexuality isn't a instrument of your bidding." Emma, am I right in assuming that you meant to say it is NOT how a loving relationship works?
I want her to act out my fantasy with me. Its not like I am trying to Cosby her into anything!
Then talk to her! It sounded like you were looking for a way to convince her to try your fantasy. Tell her about your fantasy. If she shares the same fantasy then perhaps you can try it together. If she doesn't share the same fantasy then perhaps it should stay a fantasy. While you are at it, talk to her about some of her fantasies and ask her what you can do to make your relationship better. Treat her like the wonderful person that she is. you
"Forcing your pornhub fueled (as evidenced by your avatar) fantasy on your wife is now how a loving relationship works. Your wife's sexuality isn't a instrument of your bidding." Emma, am I right in assuming that you meant to say it is NOT how a loving relationship works?
Yes that was my intent. Thanks for catching my typo, it really changed the intent of what I was trying to say.
I talked to her about it and she was upset. Your own words, you say it can be healthy. How can I tell her that we can do this in a healthy way? She said that it makes her feel threatened but I want to do it because I love her and I want to see her satisfied by another man.
It may be that sex requires a lot of bonding for your wife. If your wife starts bonding with another man through sex, it may mean the end of hour relationship.
People are all different. Some women are happy to have a primary partner and enjoy sex with other men. Others may want to only have sex with the man they love. I obviously cannot speak for women in general, but those are my observations.
We know several swinging couples..some are happy with swinging, others divorced.
While we spend a small percentage of time having sex, it has an enormous impact on our lives.
I talked to her about it and she was upset. Your own words, you say it can be healthy. How can I tell her that we can do this in a healthy way? She said that it makes her feel threatened but I want to do it because I love her and I want to see her satisfied by another man.
It seems like you have your answer, yet you don't like her answer. You want to this (or anything else) in a healthy way, don't pressure her to do things she doesn't currently want to just because YOU want her to. Forcing or coercing her is not healthy. Doing so simply makes her your fetish peddler. Just sayin.
