Good Girl & Bad Girl
My husband and I play a good girl bad girl game where am sweet one day and spicy the next. I got the idea because he called me Ms Steena one day instead of Christina and I thought it would be a great dominatrix name.
Most of the time, I am Christina but sometimes I tell him to address me as Ms Steena. Christina is fun and bubbly and Ms Steena doesn't take any shit from anyone. Christina loves to give him compliments, cuddle, passionate sex and take walks together, go to fancy dinners. Ms Steena would rather go out to a club (pre-covid) or flirt with a guy in front of my husband. Ms Steena would make him stand by the bed in his cage while she masturbates and says humiliating or downright mean things to him. Christina is always the one that unlocks him and Ms Steena is always the one who locks him up. Christina likes him locked because of the attention that she receives so she doesn't always unlock him. Ms Steena likes him locked because it gives her power in the relationship.
I don't actually have multiple personalities but I certainly have a naughty and nice side to me. Naming those sides just makes it more fun for both of us.
Sounds like tons of fun. Congratulations on a great relationship.
That sounds wonderful. I love the references to yourself in the third person and the acknowledgement of having two sides which you playfully identify. I know I feel those two sides from time to time and it took practice to embrace the naughty side. Many times I am still nervous about letting her fully out. It sounds like Ms. Steena is a healthy outlet. Love it!
What else does Ms. Steena do?
Thank you all for the support. Feeling in control is so exciting and I think my alter ego makes it easier to say some of the things I say. He was shocked the first few times but Ms Steena is a right bitch to him sometimes. Here are some things that she likes to do.
- Ms Steena tells him to put his cage on.
- Ms Steena reminds him that her ex had a bigger dick and made more money.
- Ms Steena's husband knows that she likes uncircumsized cocks feel better than his circumsized one.
- Ms Steena likes to say is it in? and then giggle
- Ms Steena likes to stop in the middle of having sex so she can finish with her vibrator.
- Ms Steena likes pegging. Ms Steena really likes pegging.
- Ms Steena doesn't like to remove her husband's cage when pegging.
- Ms Steena likes to pee on her husband in the shower.
- Ms Steena asks her husband to pull out and cum on her foot or tummy.
- Ms Steena likes to make her husband eat his own cum.
- Ms Steena likes to describe her sexual fantasies to her husband.
- Ms Steena's sexual fantasies rarely include her husband.
- Ms Steena likes to describe her sexual fantasies while her husband jerks off.
- Ms Steena's husband's cage is pink.
- Ms Steena refers to her husband's locked penis as cute.
- Ms Steena's female friend came over and Ms Steena asked her husband to show his cage off.
- Ms Steena's male friend came over and Ms Steena asked her husband to show his cage off.
Number 16 happened but 17 hasn't yet. What else can Ms Steena do? Asking for a friend.
These are fun! There is something great about the humiliation and degradation in the bedroom. My wife does this and my cock gets so hard even with the hard hitting ones. If I slow down while we are having sex or if I am not completely hard, she knows that this is the trick to get me moving.
If you search for SPH then there are lots of small penis one lines that can make you feel so very small. Here are some that we enjoy.
The subtle, matter of fact comments are the best and they make my blood and hormones boil with jealousy and helplessness. I know that we have a good sex life but I also know that I am below average. I am just about four inches erect. We both enjoy the teasing and we've got a safe word if things ever get too hurtful.
Thanks for sharing, your alter ego sounds like a fun time.
I think eroticizing our penis size is a way that some of us can cope with something that we can't change. Therapy won't make it grow so we might as well play with the emotions surrounding our perceived inadequacy. I don't want anything to do with talking about race though, some of the porn goes there and I don't like that. Once my wife found out that it was a turn on, I think really enjoys her trash talking sessions. She doesn't do it all the time but sometimes she throws one in there. We were at the grocery store a few months ago and she called me shrimp dick. Nobody was around but it got me so horny and we barely made it to the house before we ripped each others clothes off.
@steena Wow - your husband is a lucky guy. Thanks for sharing and so great that you're both having so much fun. Keep sharing please - this is fantastic. Cheers!
Love your list of the things Ms. Steena does/loves! What a great way to keep things in separate boxes so it is easy to change course. I am sure your lucky husband is enjoying the ride and looking forward to what new ideas Ms. Steena brings up next. Please do keep us informed!
Thank you all. I like to the alter ego is like wearing a mask. When you wear a mask you feel safer. The first time I sang karaoke I pretended that I was wearing a mask and nobody could see my face. I don't know if that makes sense but I think we don't act on some of these impulses and say some of these things because it doesn't feel comfortable. I feel comfortable doing those uncomfortable things as Ms Steena.
@undrawing I agree with you that SPH helps us to deal with feelings of inadequacy by eroticizing it. My wife used to say that size doesn’t matter, but after she began to see other men and she saw how much it turned me on when she compared my penis to theirs, she began to tease me about my small penis. She then told me she had always wished I had a bigger cock, but she had lied about it to protect my ego. We both enjoy SPH now. She has fun gently teasing me, and I get very turned on by it. She teases me through praise, saying “It takes a big man to admit to having a small cock.” ?
Sounds like a fun time is being had by both of you!
Except for 6, 7, 14, and 17, I would let my wife try take the lead with these things in the bedroom. That would be exciting.