I am new here and fairly new to this side of things. My wife has made it clear she is going to be leading so looking to understand how that will be for me. She also has a stated desire to be with black men and even suggested having a black baby, something which I have had to accept (we are white) and it appears part of a larger movement that mixes with FLR called BNWO. Certainly a lot to get through! Nice to meet you all.