Hello from Amsterdam (The Netherlands) Long

Hello, my name is Pieter, a long-term user of a chastity cage, first on my own initiative to control my excersive masturbations habit. This was not really a success. I was too weak, managing my own key gave me too much opportunity to masturbate. I confessed my masturbation addiction to my wife and asked for her help. After the birth of our youngest daughter, I handed the key to my wife.  It was more or less a game before, but after handing over the key to my wife, it became more serious.

However, the urge to masturbate didn't go away, it actually got worse. I was counting down the days to my next weekly orgasm, I also regularly nagged for more orgasms a week, until my wife had had enough of my nagging.

She came up with the idea of letting me earn my orgasms, despite my objections, that turned out to help. My mind was now more occupied with my tasks than with my desire for orgasm. The tasks became more intensive and took longer to complete. Over time, the tasks became more important to me than the intended goal. Some tasks lasted a few weeks, but some also several months. The renovation of the barn took 3 months. As you can imagine, I was happy to have accomplished that task. My wife evaluated those 3 months and complimented me on not only the result achieved, but also on the three months of abstinence. I felt proud of the results achieved.

I don't have a job for a long period of time for you, she said. Do you think you can maintain abstinence even without a long task, was her question.

We can try that was my response.

It may sound strange, but somehow it gave me satisfaction to achieve that goal.

My wife showed me websites where FLR was the subject and both came to the conclusion that we already had some kind of FLR relationship, not entirely to her liking however, the daughters living at home limited my wife in her FLR wishes.

Although she didn't want to involve our daughters, she did want me give good example for them how good a man should and can be.

Later more info!