New Here, Just saying Hi!

Hey All,

I've spent a fair while lurking on this forum and website, which is brilliant by the way! so thought I would finally make an account and say Hi.

Me and my beautiful wife got together very young and after 10 years together I can honestly say, it was the best decision of my life.

We got into all this FLR because my wife had the "porn" discussion with me, basically, she hates it. I think a lot of this was the assumption I was watching the usual type of porn, she was quite shocked (in a good way) to find my tastes were a little less mainstream. Sex between us also wasn't the best, I was playing a role , she was playing a role and we were having what could be described as standard Porn Sex, which we both enjoyed but it wasn't really us and sex became less enjoyable for her and me.

It took me some time to open up about Femdom/FLR with my wife and also myself, I think a lot of submissive men deal with this - I eventually realised that being honest with yourself and your partner is actually the more "manly" thing to do.

Now we are trying again for an FLR, I'm indulged with my Chastity Fetish, Ruined Orgasms and maintaining an orgasm gap in her favour, my wife is becoming more dominant in bed and the sex just feels more natural. The SPH fetish falls flat, not bragging as I do have an SPH fetish but try indulging in that with an 8" dick :/ Big Penis humiliation isn't quite the same...although it's an excuse for her to give me less PIV (it can hurt her) in favour of pleasing her with other methods 😉

I'd like to try pegging at somepoint, as a red blooded male, if I was single i would be down for sex with any woman I find attractive, which not the case with pegging - it's somthing I would only trust my wife with, in fact any female led sex in general, which I find interesting in itself, maybe this is how women often feel when it comes to sex?

All in all, I'm just so happy that my wife is willing to try this, it suits that she is naturally domineering, in fact the non-sexual service side has always been there, it's just i've stepped it up a gear.