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Hi

General background - early 30's, married ~10 years, live in UK, 2 under 10's

I kind of accidentally started an FLR/WLM a few weeks before Christmas. First I said She was in charge in the bedroom and since then that has expanded to Her having authority in the house and giving me chores etc. We don't use a chastity device but I am only allowed to orgasm when she allows it, typically just over a week (currently 10 days, which is the longest so far, but last time was not permitted, so she might be punishing me via denying me longer). She says she will lock me up if she needs to though (currently I work at home and she doesn't work, so rarely apart)

I have loved reading through the articles on this site and others (particularly femdom thinktank). I like the relatively 'vanilla' style, having never been into BDSM and being very uninterested in any unnecessary pain! 

My wife pegs me once or twice a week, which I love, we have done pegging before, but my wife was never bothered by it and just did it for me (usually at the time of the month). I want to say a huge thank you to Emma for her article on Pegging Proficiently https://www.evolvingyourman.com/2020/08/26/pegging-proficiency/ which I showed to my Wife and my Wife now enjoys pegging me (although probably not as much I do, She's not the one getting the multiple orgasm! ?) and it feels so amazing to have someone make love to you, rather than making love to someone else. I have found some other articles on the topic that I will be sharing with her too).

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This forum has been equally as helpful, reading a range of peoples experiences is invaluable for us, so new to this world. My Wife was a bit apprehensive at first, but reading others experiences has helped her understand it and now She's loving her power! Seems like a great supportive and non-judgemental community.

 
Posted : 03/02/2022 8:51 am
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Posted by: @spud

I have found some other articles on the topic that I will be sharing with her too.

Why not share with us?

I listened to episode #183 Prostate Toys of the Shameless Sex podcast the other day. There was a bunch of (interesting) chit-chat in the first half before they got to the main topic, however it was interesting to learn out a testing pioneer in the industry. 
https://www.youtube.com/c/ShamelessSexPodcast/search?query=pegging
  

 
Posted : 03/02/2022 9:17 am
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I have found some other articles on the topic that I will be sharing with her too.

Why not share with us?

They are all on here! (haven't found anyone else online covering the details and particularly the women's side) Most of the articles tagged under pegging are worth a read. Specifically, these ones I will be sending to my Wife https://www.evolvingyourman.com/2018/11/17/how-she-feels-about-pegging/ and https://www.evolvingyourman.com/2019/10/02/pegging-positions/ But she already has quite a reading list, there are many good posts on https://femdomthinktank.blogspot.com I recommend using the side bar to view the earliest years first as many of the earlier posts cover the most basic aspects.

I will give that podcast a listen, thanks for sharing!

 
Posted : 03/02/2022 12:07 pm
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Posted by: @spud They are all on here! (haven't found anyone else online covering the details and particularly the women's side) Most of the articles tagged under pegging are worth a read.

Very much agree. This one article also gave a good run down of positions. Often the videos are over done, but these ones are good at getting to the *point*.
https://www.evolvingyourman.com/2021/05/04/pegging-its-all-in-the-technique/

 
Posted : 03/02/2022 3:33 pm
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