Turns out we have an FLR
My wife and I have been together for 20 years and it turns out we have been in a FLR without really knowing it. We have had friction over the years because the dynamic wasn't well defined, but recently we have been exploring FLR and Femdom and it has been a dramatic change for the better. She is slowly growing into her authority and I am learning my place. We have been doing this for a few months and it has been fantastic both inside and outside the bedroom. From my perspective, the secret sauce has been limiting my orgasms. I voluntarily stopped giving myself orgasms a couple months ago and all I can say is everything Emma claims in her blog post, How Can I Be a Good Husband to My Wife? is 100% true. I just sent her the article today and admitted that I haven't been giving myself orgasms. We are going to talk about it tonight and see how far down the chastity rabbit hole she wants to go after seeing how great the results have been.
Congratulations. Glad you're moving your relationship in a better direction.