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Rayanandsarah
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sarah suggested that i share with other guys around here who havent gotten pegged yet or considering it but wondering how it feels. so here it goes, prepare a cop of coffee cause it might be a long one. so i wanna divide it into multiple parts, first before the pegging, during the pegging (which will also be divided into 2 parts) and after the pegging. just wanna give an advice i cant stress enough about it for guys who havent been pegged, plz dont think that what you see in porn is real, if you wanna get pegged dont do it with a dominatrix or whatever for your first time, do it with a lady you love and trust. so before pegging, i will admit i was so surprised when sarah suggested the topic with me but i tried my best to keep an open mind, hey its more modern times, so be more modern. when it was bed time i was so anxious and i will admit slightly afraid but i am blessed with an amazing wife, she did all any man can hope for from his lady to comfort him, there was so much cuddling, body kissing, she sucked me, and wanted to give me a confidence booster and i fucked her hard and she kept asking for it harder from me, so that really took so much of the worrying away. i felt way more relaxed with her then but dont get fooled, your butt is still far from relaxed to take a dildo and she fingered me which you would feel completely focused about how it goes down there and just worrying and waiting for the moment it hurts, luckily it didnt with me. so when i was physically and emotionally ready to get pegged she asked me to bend over and get comfortable with the situation as she went to put on her things. believe its at this moment you realize and think we actually doing it? i am actually getting pegged? i was bent over when she walked in with a luckily small dildo.

 

 

second part, i will divide it into physical and emotional one. physically i went through like 4 stages, first it was the tough and getting use to the dildo part, it starts being difficult when she put the dildo on the tip of my but thole, you will constantly keep taking heavy breaths every time she pushes it even the slightest, but contrary to what porn would have you believe, the toughest part isnt getting it into your butt hole but when it goes in your ass and she wants to get it in all the way for the first time, like literally every time she moves in the slightest you would be asking her to be slower no matter how slow she is and all you can think of is why did i want this in the first place or why did i agree to it. then once the dildo goes in and your body gets used to it in your ass begins like the second part where she starts moving and your are thinking that it doesnt feel bad in there but feel nothing good either, i would say this one lasts for like maybe 5 or 10 minutes then the third part which i guess would be cause the prostate swells and starts to feel good and you would think that actually feels good, i might actually enjoy that then comes the best part of it where you start feeling a bit numb on the knees, your entire body starts feeling good, you can feel waves or surges of pleasure going through your entire body every time the dildo rubs against your prostate and the feeling is so good if you cum while she hits your prostate a few times. now emotionally, well i would say you would go through 3 stages, the first would be when she is putting it in your butt, all you can think of is plz dont hurt, plz dont hurt so cant do much feeling then. after your body starts getting used to it and slight sense of pleasure begins, all you can feel is how much trusting you are of your lady that you are trusting her with so much. now the third part which is so hard to explain, cause i dont think i can find the right words to explain it, its something you have to experience on your own to understand it but i will do my best to explain it. here you feel a complete storm or cocktail or whatever you wanna call it of emotions and all literally at the same time and so much for you to process while getting your ass fucked. its like emotions of vulnerability and being helpless and completely trusting your lady with the very part of your body she is fucking. and mix it with emotions of being overwhelmed by seeing or hearing yourself in such a position for the first time and knowing you enjoy it so much and never thought you would be like this. mix it with emotions of feeling bad or slightly disappointed, maybe those words arent exactly the best to describe it, but in a way feeling bad, or better to describe it as having perspective about that you never appreciated enough how ladies feel when they are at the receiving end of fucking, like we guys honestly take so much of that for granted when we wanna fuck a lady and never wonder how the lady feels or how vulnerable it makes her feel until she is giving it to you. mix it with a feeling of appreciation, or even call it admiration for women in general and to the lady pegging you specially for being so independent and having this strong side of her that doesnt mind flipping the tables on you in bed. mix it with feeling of being blessed and turned on by the pegging you are getting. believe me its a mess, but in a way a very hot and sexy mess.

 

and finally the third part, after she is done pegging me i was so exhausted, emotionally and physically. believe me you never need a hug and someone holding you together and telling you it will be ok more than this moment, not because she hurt you, no its just a very new and rough experience for guys and need someone to help us keep it together. so its very fine to be emotional and need time to process it and need to talk to her about your emotions.

 
Posted : 10/11/2021 6:52 pm
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Headtrip
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Great summary!  I can identify with most of this.

 
Posted : 11/11/2021 1:14 pm
Stevesub
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Excellent post and I'm very jealous.

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We do lots of anal play - I'm into it, have a sissy side to me, and my anus becomes an incredibly erogenous zone when I'm caged for more than a few days. I have a variety of buttplugs and toys, so accepting a dildo isn't a problem, and my wife is more than happy to pop these in or penetrate me with fingers, and she enjoys rimming me.

But pegging with a penis strapped to her is right out. We did try it once and it worked for me, but for whatever reason she wasn't fussed and that is now a closed door.

I suppose though that we've plenty of other stuff to be getting on with. Respect to you and Sarah.

 
Posted : 15/11/2021 2:48 pm
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J.s.
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Awesome post - thanks for sharing. It is great that she brought up pegging first and you let her. How many times have you guys done it now? 

 
Posted : 18/11/2021 12:04 pm
Rayanandsarah
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@j-s we did it a second time, the second time was way better than the first time. she was way more dominant and confident in herself while doing it and i was more trusting of her doing me so we had such an amazing time. second time, i admit i needed a bit of help walking after it, cause my body felt numb and she did a hard one on me

 
Posted : 19/11/2021 2:34 am
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Rayanandsarah
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@stevesub thanks a lot man, and i am so glad you enjoy yourself with your girl so openly however try talking to her more about pegging. i cant believe i am actually saying this but its really so much fun being fucked in the ass by a dominant woman with a strapon on. dont push her to do it of course, but just talk to her about it. and i dont know if cuffs and blindfolds are your thing but give them a try too

 
Posted : 19/11/2021 5:53 am
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@rayanandsarah Awesome! Glad it is continuing to work out so well for you guys and you have been able to incorporate this into your lives.

I'd love to hear more about how, if it all, it has changed your mindset and how you treat her since she has taken on the dominant/penetration role in your relationship. 

 
Posted : 22/11/2021 5:59 am
Jafo987
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Awesome.  Glad to hear you’re enjoying it.  It can definitely be hard for a guy to give in to being penetrated.  My wife and I play with chastity as well as pegging. Our vanilla sex lives have changed so much. Enjoy it and definitely keep communication open and honest between the 2 of you.  

 
Posted : 27/11/2021 5:26 am
Bestwhencaged
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This is really wonderful and I think both a realistic and healthy approach for others to follow.  Great report and thank you for sharing.  

 
Posted : 01/12/2021 3:58 pm
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Nevertoolate
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Time is well spent working your way up from small dildos or plugs to a normal sized phallus. I pushed too hard and tried to go right to the normal size and, although we managed to get it all the way in, it felt really bad after. You have to "train" your anus and rectum to become used to this invasion. Once I spent more time working up to the size I first tried went so much easier and way more pleasurable. Once you train your backside to this new experience, you will begin to feel cravings for penetration that often supersede penile centered stimulation. Lube is primary, as is slow and steady. Enjoy the journey. Rome wasn't penetrated in a day!

Great story!

 
Posted : 01/12/2021 4:57 pm

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