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Sarah
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Well I am writing this one because I want to hear everyones thoughts on the matter, both guys and ladies equally. Whether you were a lady that likes to peg her man in the most romantic compassionate and sweet way or dominate him hard with hair pulling, ropes, cuffs, hair pull, face push on the bed, etc.... there is no denying that at its essence, pegging is an act of domination of a woman over a man in the most loving and sexual way. Now correct me if I am wrong here, I think that in our modern times, pegging is becoming more acceptable and more common because even out of the bed women are having as much power as guys and can rival and stand up to guys and that can be seen at jobs and other fields where a senior (female or male) would have to show some dominance over his juniors.  And considering women can be seniors to guys as well, that would require women to dominate the men that are juniors to her and command respect. So I think this amazing shift in power and women rivaling and challenging mens authority even allowed women to do the same in bed. Like a woman can now dominate and stand strong with a strapon dildo around her waist while the man is bent over, ass up, ready to get fucked up the ass. Make no mistake I am not at all saying that a woman needs a strapon dildo or plastic dick to be dominant in bed, but I guess everyone can agree that having a dick, whether plastic or real and being the one giving holds so much power in bed. Like I personally dont want or like being in a female led relationship, Rayan and I are equals, that includes him fucking me and me bending him over on the side of the bed and giving him a taste of his own thing. And I wanna apologize to anyone if I offended anyone with this.

 
Posted : 19/12/2021 11:24 am
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Jessie
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Well... A lot to unpack here...

First, yes, pegging and chastity are indeed becoming more popular. The reason why I guess it's more complicated. In the 1980's sex was very straight-ish, something out of a Playboy magazine. Anything that was not the hot blonde lady with big breasts was pretty much outcast. Today? LOL. There is everithing you can think online: femboys, sissies, transgender guys/girls, gentle bdsm, hardcore bdsm, interracial, gay, lesbian.

The change in power relations is also happening - today women can be managers and bosses too, however I don't see a lot of connections between this changes at work and the variety of sexualities showing up online (at least nothing beyond the fact that our society is becoming more open and accepting with time...). However it's still very much not ok to be a dominator at work (it's going the other way aroud - the jerk boss feels kind of obsolete and inadequate today) - so yeah, don't dominate the junior employees, it might get you in trouble with HR.

Pegging and chastity cages are a form of power exchange - it makes the guy vulnerable, and puts the power in the hands of the woman. It opens a lot of new possibilities in bed (and sometimes out of bed too).

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I doubt we will ever see a world with "househusbands" like we had in the 1950's with housewifes (that seems to be gone too), and the more hardcore forms of submission (like sissy maids) won't become mainstream either. But as a form of doing new things in bed, it's certainly a new possibility (and new ones will keep coming)

 
Posted : 19/12/2021 1:46 pm
Stevesub
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Hi Sarah, interesting thoughts you have.

I spent seven years as a househusband in the eighties. Nothing erotic, we had kids and childcare wasn't around then like it is now. My wife had a good professional career with pension and benefits, whole I had a less well-paid job I hated. It was a no-brainer but raised eyebrows at the time. It was a partnership of equals, probably I missed an opportunity there but, first, FLR wasn't a thing I knew about, and, second, I was just too tired coping with two young daughters.

In the seventies as a young man, I had a couple of female bosses which I did not enjoy. The reason for this is not that I resented a woman being senior to me, it was that they were very hard taskmaster. I've reflected on this and my conclusion is this: for a woman to be successful at a time of sexism, discrimination and misogyny, a woman had to be far more competent and driven than male coworkers. The same actually is pretty much true today, but worse then. This made them less tolerant of coasting and corner-cutting workers (which I was).

Our FLR and my submissiveness has developed through a couple of things. One is the internet, where porn has diversified from the stuff you had in girlie mags to encompass every kink and perhaps even invent new ones. It was when I discovered it I knew this was the itch I'd had and couldn't scratch. The second is having, our kids having left home, the time, space and energy to develop this side of our relationship.

My wife loves being in charge, but not in a violent way though she does use paddles and switches if my behaviour calls for these, and I am often restrained by wrists and ankles. Her domination takes the form of my being completely submissive and passive until orders are given, then to perform with gusto until she is done, when sex stops. I'm in permanent chastity, though only half the time in cages.  I am naked at home as part of humiliation play, with lists of chores I need to complete, and I'm not allowed male underwear or socks ever - it's panties and hosiery, mainly hold-ups, 24/7. Concealing these (or failing to), and painted nails, is probably what excites her most. 

Anyway, that's how she likes her FLR. 

 
Posted : 20/12/2021 5:47 am

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