I hope you find this interesting.
It was very interesting. Even though it wasn't a deep dive (those can be boring), it was well written and in my opinion, accurate and helpful. Thank you for sharing.
For years I have encouraged my Wife to do this very thing from the article. I think perhaps I have a better understanding as to why:
“I recommend watching someone give your partner a sensual massage, setting the whole scene and everything,” she explains. “If that’s too much for you to handle, please speak your truth with your partner.”