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Category: Getting Started

How to be a better husband
About Him Getting Started Relationships Sexuality

How can I be a good husband to my wife?

September 6, 2021December 4, 2021 Emma

The fact that you are even asking how you can be a better husband speaks volumes. In this blog you will find conventional wisdom supplemented some unconventional ways to be a better partner. Being the best husband is ultimately about waking up every morning and making a conscious decision to

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Getting Started Having Fun With It Sexuality

Soaking: The Dock and Talk Approach

December 21, 2020December 4, 2021 Emma

In countless previous blogs, I’ve discussed the merits of separating sex from ejaculation. I’ve received comments that make it seem impossible but it really isn’t that difficult. The problem is getting started and changing what you’ve taken for granted all of these years. Soaking is an interesting concept of inserting

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The Ideal Penis is… Locked!

September 3, 2020May 24, 2021 Emma

The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to your relationship. Ultimately the cage and accompanying key symbolize that the man is willing to hand over control for the very organ that defines him as

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Antisocial Distancing

August 11, 2020May 23, 2021 Emma

Physical touch is very important to many of us and it seems that our society does our best to eliminate touch at every turn. Have you ever heard the term “I’m a hugger”? This typically means that the self admitted hugger knows that he or she recognizes the most love

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Blog Getting Started Having Fun With It

Male Chastity: Which is better, plastic or metal?

June 11, 2020September 30, 2021 Emma

I’ll go against everything that I have ever been told and begin with the conclusion. The plastic or resin cage is lighter weight and typically will not set off metal detectors. It is also more resistant to changes in temperature and this typically makes it more comfortable for the wearer.

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About Him Blog Getting Started

Relationships: Talk to him about masturbation

January 10, 2020July 25, 2021 Emma

Masturbation is a huge part of our sexuality. We all masturbate and taking matters into our own hands is nothing to be ashamed of. The problems come when masturbation causes conflict in the relationship. Problems occur when the masturbation of one partner gets in the way of the sexual or

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Blog Getting Started Having Fun With It

Male Chastity Day 2020

January 7, 2020May 23, 2021 Emma

I’ve been a bit silent over the last month as we’ve had family in and out of town and everything that comes with the holidays. What better way to kick off the new year than Male Chastity Day? Male Chastity is a trend that is growing in popularity as a

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A Chastity Husband Manifesto

November 24, 2019May 22, 2021 Emma

The following is an insightful piece written by Tumbelina, a chastity advocate. I wanted to share it with you all since the article seemed to resonate with my feelings and observations about chastity and orgasm control. I don’t have a way to get in touch with the author but I’d

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Penetration & Dominance

September 13, 2019May 22, 2021 Emma

Oscar Wilde once said “Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about Power.” While that quote is vastly overused, it is completely accurate. We use sex when we are single for self-validation. We use sex when we are married or in a relationship as a means

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Is Masturbation Cheating?

September 10, 2019May 22, 2021 Emma

My mother told me that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. To some extent, she was right. Men love affection, attention, appreciation and respect. Cooking for your man shows all of these things – serving by providing. How would you feel if you spent hours slaving

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