Hi everyone, first post of 2019! I had a request to write about one of the times that I shared my favorite relationship secret with one of my friends. For the sake of this story, let’s call her… Lucy. So Lucy and I were talking and she was going on
Category: Getting Started
A bunch of reasons in no particular order. I’ll probably add to them over time as the benefits keep rolling in. Feel free to add your own in the comments. He has no choice but to be faithful to you while he is out. He can no longer masturbate without
So how often should he be allowed to cum? Traditional Chinese medicine teaches the following: “A man may attain health and longevity if he practices an ejaculation frequency of twice monthly or 24 times a year. If at the same time he pays careful attention to proper diet and exercise
Those of you that have been following along have seen that I am genuinely not interested in the fetish side of things. I am really just looking to use the male sex drive as a tool to increase the happiness for both my boyfriend and myself. That said, I always
We had a discussion today that made me think of this. My guy trusts me to hold the power of his orgasms and I ration them back to him over time. This is akin to a starving man who is given food. If I gave him unlimited access to food,
We had an interesting conversation this evening that I decided to share with you despite family being in town and all of the Christmas festivities in the household this weekend. The boyfriend confided in me that he sometimes doesn’t feel normal wearing his cage and is sometimes self-conscious about it
One of the best things about locking your man is the complete removal of pressure to have sex. Previously I would feel like we would flirt through the day and I would feel pressured that sex was expected that night. When he is locked up, the pressure is completely removed.
I started this blog a month or two ago and the single biggest question is from guys asking how they can get their girlfriends or wives to lock them up. I decided to put some ideas together but please remember that this is not about your little fetish, this is
Are you a monster? Scheduling sex takes the fun out of it! You might think so but I’ve found that setting expectations and taking privileges away if life gets difficult, his behavior isn’t up to par or I simply decide to. I’ve also found that your man doesn’t need ejaculation
Teasing is one of the best things about having your man on a release cycle as it allows you to exert your dominance on him. Whether locked or not, make sure you do lots of touching, brush by him grab his butt. Lean down in front of him to pick