I get lots of requests for this but I don’t think that I can help here. Share the blog with your partner and perhaps share what you think lockup would accomplish for your relationship but I wouldn’t recommend going beyond that. If he or she didn’t take to the idea the first time, try again in a few months if you wish. If you come on too strong, it will likely never be something that is a good fit for your relationship.
How do I convince my partner to lock me up?