This blog is intended to be a followup to my popular “What is the appeal of a hotwife relationship“. While it should read just fine as a standalone blog, I think reading the previous blog will help frame where my perspective is coming from. I’ll start by defining a Hotwife
Emma, First off, thank you for maintaining such a great website. Your articles have been pivotal in feeling more comfortable about my wife and I’s desires. I’m reaching out to you today to see if you have any advice or recommended reading material from your website for couples who are
Male Chastity: The lock and key are important symbols of our relationship. ?
Some couples have a song, perhaps the song that they danced to at their wedding. Some couples have a place such as their honeymoon location or another place that has special meaning to them. We all have symbols that represent various things to them and for Kev and I, the
This is one that works especially well for the husbands that aren’t great about opening up about their fantasies and their feelings. It works by getting them out of their head and into the character or scenario that they find arousing. We will start with the assumption that your husband
Orgasm Denial: A step by step guide to add structure to his ejaculations.
In my previous blog, we discussed orgasms and how controlling male orgasms can be integral to the satisfaction potential of your relationship. I’ll do my best to make this blog stand on it’s own two feet but I’d recommend that you read the previous blog first. This time around I’ll
Orgasm Denial: Controlling access to what he believes he is entitled to.
Let’s first outline what denial is and why men find it exciting. Denial is the practice of refraining from sexual experiences or excitement. Pretty simple right? Denial is not having orgasm, so how on earth would he benefit sexually from being denied orgasm? Hold your horses, I’ll get there. See
Hi Emma, Thank you so much for your articles, I can relate to so much of what you write. My name is Tanya (not my real name) I am 46, 5’9 and unfortunately curvier than I want to be. My husband Brett (not his real name) says it is my
Mistress Emma: No ball gags, whips or patent leather costumes in my closet.
I am not a dominatrix. I am not a mistress. I don’t believe in female supremacy. I don’t think women should rule the world. I don’t even think that I am better in any way than my lovely husband Kev. As my Twitter following grows, so do the unsolicited daily
This site has been around in one form or another for five years. Five years. That is an eternity in internet years but not really that long in terms of human history. I’ve evolved as a person. Kev has evolved as a person. We’ve evolved together and you’ve been along
It is common knowledge that many kinks are born of insecurities, the incredible human brain sexualizes potentially hurtful things and makes us embrace them. Weird and counterintuitive but it is a real thing. Really real. Realest of real. Our society values the penis and attaches a manly subtext to men