@subhubphx I agree with you that “chastity control” and “cuckold/ENM” are two separate phenomena and that one doesn’t necessarily lead to the other. ...

@nevertoolate The term “cuckold” is only a problem if you assume that “shame, loss of control and humiliation” are bad things. For some of us those t...

@subhubphx She is awesome. I wish sex ed resources like that were available when I was a young man!

@subhubphx You know what my wife used to find fun when we played with the cuckolding fantasy? Pretending that I was someone else during actual penetr...

@djv I remember the first time my wife and I played with a dildo. I picked the first one, and because I have a thing for small penis humiliation, I c...

@headtrip My understanding is that the term “compersion” was coined by people studying the psychology of polyamorous relationships. But I could see h...

@suzzana My wife could say the same thing about me. I like it that way. But I’m curious whether you could imagine getting pleasure from allowing HIM...

That is an interesting article. I like the way it breaks down the mix of feelings that make up the overall sense of “compersion”. It says that a limi...

@steph I feel a bit sheepish about occupying so much space on Emma’s website—I hope she doesn’t mind—but I have enjoyed this conversation with you and...

@steph No need to apologize for not responding sooner. You have been doing what you needed to do for a friend. Thanks for the detailed response. It ...

@steph I can’t speak for Emma, but the pointed questions you put to her make it sound as though you feel a need to justify feeling differently about e...

@steph You are definitely walking a fuzzy line, but why shouldn’t you? The four of you are having some sexy fun that spices up the sex lives of both ...

@stephsdave That is a really hot game you and Steph are playing with John and Jane! I’m jealous. 😉 The red line you have drawn between erotic pl...

@j-m I don’t think I am more evolved than anyone. There are many different ways for couples to lead their lives, and each couple needs to learn what ...

I agree with you. Marriage is an important symbol to me. That may seem strange to some people, given that my wife has engaged in what Emma calls “po...