You mention that you want to feel empowered and in control. I think that making sure that you actually feel that way is important to avoiding false st...

Looks great! When you get really good at Photoshop, maybe you can change what the guy is presenting to her into... something that fits the theme of th...

Hello Katie, I’m glad to see you here. I remember your blog and enjoyed reading it, along with some excellent guest posts you made on another blog t...

@evolvingyourman_ivcr4j It’s interesting that of the primarily English-speaking countries here (US, UK, Canada, Australia), Australia is the only on...

How about this one? Maybe chastity isn’t quite ready for Bluetooth yet...

The alpha/beta distinction might make sense in the animal world, where a male’s survival and mating prospects are largely determined by his physical s...

Hi Ruined-Julie - I love the simple, yet ingenious, system you have. For us, we talked about having some sort of emergency key, but she decided it was...

@jc5200 As I understand it, the main factor behind the orgasm hangover feeling is the crash in dopamine that follows the rush of dopamine you get with...

I think this is a really interesting topic. Over the past while, I worked on writing something that tries to fully answer this question, but I think i...

I enjoyed reading through this blog. Thanks for pointing it out! I noticed that the style of relationship they have built is not all that different fr...

Hi Emma, One thing that my girlfriend makes sure of is that I thank her after sex or after she touches me, whether she’s let me orgasm or she’s teased...

Hi Emma, Until a short while ago, my partner and I had only done orgasm control as one part of play from time to time. Recently, we decided to try it ...

Hi flrob, I just wanted to let you know that I think you meant to address your reply to davidpdh1866. I actually fit into a much younger demographic t...

Hi Emma, Please pass along my thanks to Kevin for his willingness to share his feelings and experiences around a sensitive and very personal part of h...

I hope it’s okay to jump in here. I think it would be great to hear some of Kevin’s side. Most of the male views you find on this topic are from guys ...