The honour system has gone well for me, mostly because I feel the benefits of retaining. I actually found this site because I thought that I had “disc...

“…I really am enjoying the sexual charge that I have as a result of cumming only once or twice a week. But, I do find myself wishing that she would c...

“I'm a lucky guy and 99% of all my "sexy thoughts" are a visual of my wife…” This is so true for me as well. Prior to chastity, thoughts of her wer...

You’re not alone. Once I began to get used to having orgasms only with my wife, my ability to control myself has really declined. I have to be careful...

Steph: I must say, I have no idea about your true identities, so I hope that your husband might realize how unlikely it would be for you to be recog...

I like the blogs like I like my orgasms: totally not up to me. In a similar vein, they are a surprise treat when more spaced out.

@norcalman Glad to hear that the honor system is working for you too and that it did for @subhubphx for so many years. The guilt of getting caught...

Katie: Thanks for responding so quickly. In answer to your “leading questions”: Why are women capable of having multiple orgasms while men are g...

As another practitioner of cageless chastity, I agree that guys can be successfully trained to stay chaste even without a device. Aside from your er...

It does, kind of. Also just a general stirring and rising sensitivity. It makes me crave touch. Just this morning when my wife woke, I massaged her ba...

“Lockspace” is pretty good. I heard a guy call it “the bees,” which is quite accurate from the man’s perspective. For me, it takes about 4 days to get...

@evolvingdevilsadvocate, there’s a lot to unpack here. You start out with a general expression of disappointment in your sexual life as a married ma...

It’s definitely a fascinating topic and one I have been learning about. Emma, if you are researching for this blog post, you might want to listen to s...