With that much experience, you should write a book or something.

As I posted somewhere else recently: -- Chastity is almost unavoidably a form of training for me. It's a bit embarrassing to admit, but 90% of the...

Free virus or virus free?

You have to first work on yourself. That is indeed the hardest part. If you want the woman of your dreams, you need to invest in yourself to become th...

The best investment you can make is in communication. Specifically, your ability to be open with her without dumping on her. Dumping is when you allow...

@allabouther Which book? (Link?)

Does your wife understand that you enjoy humiliation? That might be a good topic to explain to her, since most women find it weird and off-putting unt...

Both the caging and denial seem to be increasing. She's just getting more confident that her decision is exactly what I want and need. I am so thankfu...

That's pretty funny that a lot of the people asking the question are decades younger -- but awesome that you're starting now! The first and most imp...

Well said!

@mickg93 ❤️ You were brave and loving to let her know how you care about her health.

My wife is vanilla. Even the idea of Loctober would be a huge turn-off for her. Our life is much simpler: I'm chaste, except when she wants it otherwi...

Not a problem. You're over-thinking this. Make sure you size your cage appropriately. Specifically: It should not be any longer than you are at yo...

Are you honest with your wife?

Something about that night ? ... my wife couldn't sleep and woke up in the middle of the night (might have been the same night) and ended up riding me...