I am a 35 yr old male from Kentucky. I enjoy being locked and my wife holds the key. All though I am more interested in this lifestyle than she is I will admit. I look forward to interacting on the site.
May men start out this way. I encourage you to keep the communication open and be vulnerable, without pestering her. Remember she has interests too. Maybe there needs to be more time of allowing her to warm up (become more comfortable) to the idea while you show her that her needs are important to you.
Welcome. Lots of open communication is key. Share research on chastity, this site and many others as well as books. Good luck.