Your fantasies

It would be nice to have a panel who marks the number of days without cumming.

Kev has been under chastity for XXX days.

Well, I think there are no exact recipes to create an FLR.
I have always been attracted to femdom since I first saw it, and also forced chastity and ultimately cuckolding.
I have always failed in trying to establish a femdom relationship with my wife, I think it was my fault: trying to rule from below, being obsessive and insistent...
In our case I think "honesty" doesn't work. My wife is open-minded, but she's not into kinkiness.
Well, since I started reading this blog I started to consider FLR, and I am more relaxed than with other femdom type blogs, with images of whips, etc.
My wife likes to dominate on a daily basis, like almost everyone else, I think, so I have started to keep quiet, not talk about dominance or anything like that, and do what she says. I think it is the way to start an FLR relationship on the right foot. And I can adapt without pressure or having to go faster than I can.
Let's see if things continue well.

Thank you.

Wife here - 16 years into the lifestyle, and most have been fulfilled.  I think we have not really had much play with BDSM in a group setting - dungeon experience with multiple male doms and my hubs getting pegged, me restrained and Gb'd.  Not very appealing to me, but would consider it if it made him happy.

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Tell us about your fantasy.

Here's one:

My lovely Wife, Karin, blindfolds me and puts a metal cock cage onto me.

Then I am pegged by a large group of Her lady friends, with my Wife "forcing" me to go down on Her the entire time. If I stop for any reason, She grabs me by the hair and pulls my head back down where it belongs.

After all the ladies have finished with me, Karin then takes Her turn and She pegs me (like a Mistress, rather than a loving Wife) before making me eat all the cum I produced during the whole session.

@mickg93 that’s a great fantasy!

My wife is gradually taking more control of our sex life, how and when we do it, my time in chastity, and the number of orgasms that I have. Since March, we are at 51:7 in the latter category. The last three of mine were ruined, inside her. I licked her clean aftward which we both loved. Her average time between orgasms is 3.4 days, and mine is 24.6. My fantasy is for her to implement a stricter rule, such as no orgasm for me in a given month unless she has at least ten. My opportunity would fall on the last Sunday of each month, so it could be as few as 22 days to achive the goal (i.e., if February 1 fell on a Sunday in a non-leapyear). Had that rule been in place since March, I would have had only three orgasms, though we still have a shot at ten for her in August.