I (F38) am married to my husband (M40) and have a boyfriend (M33) who comes over and visits a few times a month. He (boyfriend) is in an open marriage, we met him and his wife in our church study group if you can believe that! We hit things off
I’ve got a few blogs that I am in the middle of writing but I’ve been meaning to post about the Sex and Psychology Podcast for some time. This is an excellent podcast and will absolutely make you a better partner and a better lover. If you are a sex
My wheels are turning, three blogs in three consecutive days? Who am I? I think my mind is just incredibly fueled by the wonderful comments and dialog that my past two blogs have spurred. @tincup and @nevertoolate specifically on the previous blog about Romantic Loyalty and Cuckolding. I wanted to
Yesterday I posted a blog entitled Yes. I Cuckold My Husband: My Perspective and shortly after, I received some private messages from readers. Some were supportive while others were critical, saying that I was taking the site to the world of mainstream kink. I felt defensive and for a while
This blog is intended to be a followup to my popular “What is the appeal of a hotwife relationship“. While it should read just fine as a standalone blog, I think reading the previous blog will help frame where my perspective is coming from. I’ll start by defining a Hotwife
Emma, First off, thank you for maintaining such a great website. Your articles have been pivotal in feeling more comfortable about my wife and I’s desires. I’m reaching out to you today to see if you have any advice or recommended reading material from your website for couples who are
Some couples have a song, perhaps the song that they danced to at their wedding. Some couples have a place such as their honeymoon location or another place that has special meaning to them. We all have symbols that represent various things to them and for Kev and I, the
This is one that works especially well for the husbands that aren’t great about opening up about their fantasies and their feelings. It works by getting them out of their head and into the character or scenario that they find arousing. We will start with the assumption that your husband
In my previous blog, we discussed orgasms and how controlling male orgasms can be integral to the satisfaction potential of your relationship. I’ll do my best to make this blog stand on it’s own two feet but I’d recommend that you read the previous blog first. This time around I’ll
Let’s first outline what denial is and why men find it exciting. Denial is the practice of refraining from sexual experiences or excitement. Pretty simple right? Denial is not having orgasm, so how on earth would he benefit sexually from being denied orgasm? Hold your horses, I’ll get there. See