I am not a dominatrix. I am not a mistress. I don’t believe in female supremacy. I don’t think women should rule the world. I don’t even think that I am better in any way than my lovely husband Kev. As my Twitter following grows, so do the unsolicited daily

This site has been around in one form or another for five years. Five years. That is an eternity in internet years but not really that long in terms of human history. I’ve evolved as a person. Kev has evolved as a person. We’ve evolved together and you’ve been along

It is common knowledge that many kinks are born of insecurities, the incredible human brain sexualizes potentially hurtful things and makes us embrace them. Weird and counterintuitive but it is a real thing. Really real. Realest of real. Our society values the penis and attaches a manly subtext to men

Recent convert here so I feel like I am uniquely positioned to talk about this topic. If you read my previous blogs, you will know that I’ve been mostly opposed to cuckold relationships. Much of this stemmed from the offensive connotation of the word cuckold especially after the last few

Kev and I are newlyweds, we got hitched just two short months ago. While he and I are in our honeymoon period on paper, we’ve been together for years. We actually have a honeymoon planned for next month so I suppose you could say pre-honeymoon period. Our sex life is

I was thinking in the shower as I often do and I thought to myself; self, many of these fetishes that Kev and I enjoy dance around the bigger topic of inferiority or sexual inadequacy. My site carries the same bucket of fetishes that seem interconnected in some way. Pegging,

We’ve started his new 6 week schedule, and he’s past the two week mark. I wasn’t really expecting much at this stage. Maybe it’s the fact that his E-day is so far away that psychologically he’s just given up on ejaculation. In any case, he seems to have a renewed

Sorry for delay in my posting but some things came up in the family which distracted me (nothing too serious fortunately). Well I guess everyones big question is – did he make it through his first 7 day retention cycle? The answer is a big and happy Y-E-S!!!!! hooray!!!!! It

Why are sexual needs so difficult for us to talk about? If you are hungry, you talk about how to satiate your hunger. If you are bored, you talk about exciting activities to do together. There are so many couples who have reached a point of stagnation in their relationship.

We are having fun with this so far, as it has greatly enhanced our sex life even with just this short run so far. The desired goal is to get him retaining his ejaculations for a period of 7 days with each cycle, and to completely eliminate self pleasuring for