I recently listened to this 2-part podcast episode, which tells the story of a couple venturing into cuckolding. What struck me (among the freaky thoughts that I share with the male partner) was the assertion that confidence is what makes a woman sexy for many of us. Exploring another partner has obviously turned up the heat for this couple and a lot of the positive feelings are centred around the woman’s confidence as she goes on this journey. Interestingly, the male partner also derives confidence from the dynamic.
Thinking about my own relationship with my wife, this podcast helps me to understand my own feelings when other guys notice my wife in public. Jealousy is not the first emotion that comes to mind when I see how the attention boosts her confidence.