Being Pegged make you gay?

Of course not.

To have PIV sex is like to swim with a bathing suit in a regular beach, to be pegged is like to swim naked at a nude beach. It's only odd the first 15 minutes and it's only odd in our head, but once you get used to it, its by far a lot better... and there is no turning back.

Pegging has free me.

Has free me from the stress and from the obligation to have and erection in order to have sex...

Has free me form having to control the sexual relation and to relax and focus on my own pleasure only...

Has free me from having to wear a condom, because that is 0% chances of a pregnancy and is very unlikely to have a STD.

Has free me from penile orgasms.

Penile orgasms only allow me to have but one weak orgasm and prostate orgasms allow me to have multiple and very strong ones. Any prostate orgasm gives a lot more pleasure that a penile one.

Has free my body from mandatory ejaculations and a refractory periods.

The body don't really needs to ejaculate every time we have an orgasm, in fact i only ejaculate about 10% of the times i have an orgasm and when my body really needs. Even when i ejaculate it only comes out prostate fluid. That's the only one that needs to go, all spermatozoon are kept inside our body, your testosterone boosts and your sex drive (for women if you are hetero) increases a lot.

Has free my mind and body from post penile orgasm fatigue.

Penile ejaculation takes is toll on every man because, after ejaculate, we feel tired and just want go to sleep, some of us even feel depressed and grumpy, and it's all fault of the refractory period and testosterone lost.

Prostate orgasms give us the best of all worlds. He get to have a lot of pleasure, we don't suffer from testosterone lost, and there is an boost of energy that is not wasted.

So I don't see any reason to go back to PIV sex or to have a penile orgasm ever again.

But it does not turn you gay, only frees you.

I don't know why this myth persists.

I have been pegged - by Karin, my lovely Wife as well as other women - what must now be hundreds of times over the course of our 12-year-plus Female-led open/poly relationship, and five-year-plus marriage under the same rules, and I have never had any desire to engage in sex with a man. Neither as a top, nor as a bottom.

Submitting to a pegging from a Woman does not make a man gay. Does it make him "kinky"? Sure. Submissive? Absolutely. But if he never had an urge to be with a man in his life, pegging doesn't create such an urge out of thin air.

Being pegged by the woman you love, adore and worship is one of the most intimate things they can do together.  The minute you take away the porn fueled inspiration, being penetrated by your wife is a beautiful act of making love.

"Technically," a gay male prefers to have sex only with other males. The act doesn't make you homosexual any more than receiving oral sex does. You are fortunate to experience more of your body with a willing partner! Relax and enjoy being penetrated!

@subhubphx

Posted by: @subhubphx

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Being pegged by the woman you love, adore and worship is one of the most intimate things they can do together.  The minute you take away the porn fueled inspiration, being penetrated by your wife is a beautiful act of making love.

You've totally nailed it! You've captured the true essence of what it means to be intimately connected with your partner. Your words are like pure gold, shining with brilliance. Seriously, well freaking done!

@vivian  What an incredibly nice thing to say.  Thank you.

I can’t attest to the culkholding scenario but my significant other and I tried pegging for the first time in January and have gradually been doing it more and more to now 1-2 times a week. I even got to experience (just recently) the elusive prostate orgasm and wow what an experience 🤯🤯

That being said, I have zero attraction to the same sex. I find my lover with her strap unbelievably sexy and relish in the fact that she knows how to surgically pleasure me in such intimate ways.

I find it for us to be a direct inverse of PIV sex when I’m retaining. - I’m deriving pleasure from her pleasure and with pegging she is getting pleasure, pleasuring me. It really is the other side of the coin for some.

I think being gay is a deeply sexual attitude, finding anal stimulation arousing is a simple pleasure and something else entirely.
And what's also something else entirely is when a man gets aroused by a woman forcing him to suck a dildo or even a real cock. That then has to do with submission and/or humiliation and nothing to do with being gay.

I hope this helps you a bit and encourages you to focus on the good things about pegging instead of unnecessary guilt.

In my simple mind...

Nothing "makes you gay". If you're gay, you're gay.

I am bi, because I desire to be with men with their strong features and beautiful penis's. I also love my wife and deeply desire all of her womanhood and lovely female features.

A piece of silicone up the ass changes nothing. If you are concerned, talk to a trusted friend or see a therapist.

I agree with everything said above.

Butt (pun intended) maybe for some bi curious men, being pegged will help them to be more open, accepting of a dominant male partner.  So will it make you gay? No, but maybe it’s a gateway for someone with an existing unrealized predisposition

or maybe it will allow some curious men to find happiness at home with their more dominant wife.

and I am envious, subhubphx. I even bought my wife a pegging toy.  She has no interest in being on top of me.  Sigh 😞

Maybe this is a disagreement of semantics, but I don't think it is a chicken or egg argument. To me it is clear.

Certainly there are some bi men or gay men that might or may enjoy pegging for any number of reasons. I just don't believe that a man getting pegged "makes" him gay. Straight men love getting pegged. See @subhubphx

To each thier own. I'm a bi dude and I'm down for pegging and would certainly love some real penis sometime.

By the way, there hasn't been much LGBT folks representing on the site. That's probably not the mission here and people (especially men) are a bit afraid to show much color. However, if there are any LGBT folks that would like to share journeys or anything else, but fo not feel comfortable posting "publicly", please feel free to PM me. I would love to correspond and will answer all respectful messages.

Much Love,

TinCup

As a cuckold of over 20 years to my ex hotwife and a bisexual male I have experienced pegging from my ex wife and also anal sex from men.

With regards to being pegged it was a power dynamic, by this I mean my ex wife was in control of me and took the dominant role of penetrating me. Although this was extremely pleasurable for me not only being dominated but also the act, receiving anal sex from a man was a different experience altogether. This act of as another man using me for his pleasure and mine and also with him finishing inside me is totally different.

So as a bi male I’m trying to say that your wife pegging you doesn’t make you gay or bi it means you are being subservient to a dominant wife.