@headtrip My understanding is that the term “compersion” was coined by people studying the psychology of polyamorous relationships. But I could see h...

@suzzana My wife could say the same thing about me. I like it that way. But I’m curious whether you could imagine getting pleasure from allowing HIM...

That is an interesting article. I like the way it breaks down the mix of feelings that make up the overall sense of “compersion”. It says that a limi...

@steph I feel a bit sheepish about occupying so much space on Emma’s website—I hope she doesn’t mind—but I have enjoyed this conversation with you and...

@steph No need to apologize for not responding sooner. You have been doing what you needed to do for a friend. Thanks for the detailed response. It ...

@steph I can’t speak for Emma, but the pointed questions you put to her make it sound as though you feel a need to justify feeling differently about e...

@steph You are definitely walking a fuzzy line, but why shouldn’t you? The four of you are having some sexy fun that spices up the sex lives of both ...

@stephsdave That is a really hot game you and Steph are playing with John and Jane! I’m jealous. 😉 The red line you have drawn between erotic pl...

@j-m I don’t think I am more evolved than anyone. There are many different ways for couples to lead their lives, and each couple needs to learn what ...

I agree with you. Marriage is an important symbol to me. That may seem strange to some people, given that my wife has engaged in what Emma calls “po...

Hi Emma, I know that you aren’t into discipline/spanking, so I will understand if you don’t want to do this, but I think there might be some interes...

In answer to the question “what do we call this?”, I would say that, yes, it is a form of “poly friending”. You don’t have actual sex with the other ...

Penisheld, I had to laugh at myself when I misread your question as “How would you see society/the world improving if large cocks were generally caged...

I agree with you, Recover. It is fun to imagine a different world, one in which our kinks come to be seen as “normal” behaviour. But apart from the l...

@janell You remind me of my wife back when I told her I had cuckold fantasies. Like you, she was really turned on by the idea of being free to experi...