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New/Broadening Horizons

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Hi all,

I'm not that great at talking about myself, but here goes!

Essentially, I'm an introvert (INFJ personality) with a naturally submissive nature.  I have just always known that in any lasting relationship, my place would not be the driver's seat and I am finally accepting of this.  I'm also realizing that submissive does not mean weak, so I'm hoping that the shame I have subjected myself to all my life finally recedes.  

I've been on a huge self-improvement kick this year, and one of improvements is to stop repressing who i am and pursue the type of relationship I have always dreamed of, which is one where the woman is in charge.

I've never tried pegging or chastity, and while both kind of frighten me, they also arouse me due to the power dynamics of each.


Hopefully I'll make some new friends here and learn more about myself!

Posted : 29/06/2022 11:52 am
nevertoolate, c22, restrainedlove and 12 people reacted
Posts: 130

Welcome! Here's some two cent advice:

  • Take things slow
  • Always be honest with yourself and with your needs
  • Never be ashamed to be a submissive male - We are awesome!
  • Reach out to the members on this sight as often as you like. Folks share like experiences and give solid advice without judgement. Our host Emma is THE BEST.

I look forward to hearing about your journey.

Posted : 29/06/2022 1:57 pm
Posts: 39
Trusted Member

Welcome to the group 

Posted : 01/07/2022 1:45 pm
Posts: 128
Estimable Member

Welcome to the group. There are lots of good articles on the site.

Posted : 03/07/2022 7:28 am