I don't have Dave's exact desires as you describe them, and my own feelings of inadequacy are less variable than his. I have two thoughts. First, he...

I agree with JS. There's nothing wrong with consensual/ethical non-monogamy, but it doesn't seem that you've exhausted experimentation and variety wi...

It's inevitable. You're in the US. Women have outnumbered men in US law schools and as new lawyers for almost 20 years. Women outnumber men in medi...

I admire your mutually good judgment and complementary niceness at that age. I also met a woman I was to marry while we were students at the same uni...

@mylittleguy The example you offer is extremely achievable, unless you live in the Atacama Desert. If you have mentioned this or other specific fa...

It's wonderful that you have found that you enjoy it, and that you are finding new and creative ways to push that button. If you have a secret kink o...

I found this quote in the article from a man in chastity to be close to my own thoughts: “In normal life, it’s a comforting presence and a reminder o...

@winstonmacgregor 'Tis true. My first wife had a grading scale - "cock" for large ones, "penis" for small ones, and "peenie" for mine. I couldn't...