I do voluntary chastity too. Our agreement is, no masturbating ever without her knowledge and permission first. That is funny, my wife uses the same...

@camicakes Yes, there are a couple of books you get get off Amazon, "Locked in Love" is a good one. Not cruel etc. but male chastity done in a loving...

@flyingbob Very well explained! When husbands masturbate, it does steal from the wife. I know what some would say, "gosh, she probably isn't going ...

We use male chastity like Emma describes, it is not about punishment or being cruel. It is about help from my wife to reduce my masturbation. Left to ...

Pay to play, we have been doing this for years. I am locked part time, but even when I am not, my wife is always home and rarely goes anywhere that I ...

I read a post from a guy once that talked about males and how they enter a relationship and marriage. Nearly all males masturbate frequently when sing...

We do teasing too. Sometimes she laughs or jokes about my need to masturbate. She laughs when I about to cum. Jokes I better enjoy this one, because t...

@therachel We went through this exact thing a few years ago. I was able to retire before my wife. I had planned on when I was going to retire for a...

After rereading this article from a year ago and from what I have learned and experienced, this is very true. Men that masturbate often probably are...

Yes, communication is good! I was like you, masturbated often, wife was too interested in sex. I got her to read a couple of books on how to use male ...

I think a lot of men think about eating their cum, until they cum, then not so much. One way to do it and you can't change your mind is have your wi...

For me, using a device initially was used to help break that male masturbation habit that nearly all males struggle with it seems. I masturbated as yo...

I would be curious why the doctor didn't recommend surgery? As far as male chastity play goes, if you have only been married 5 years, not sure if y...

You want me to reply here or in a forum somewhere? I can tell how we got started and how the wife is involved, she is very vanilla, but we still do it...

@evolvingyourman_ivcr4j Oh wow, not sure I am that interesting to write a blog about. Funny, you asked me if I was a writer, I am retired now, but w...