Sexual Self Worth

People base their self esteem on many different things including their job, material possessions and interpersonal relationships. If their job is going well, they feel good about themselves. If their relationships with friends are going well, they feel good about themselves. For many of us,

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The Female Brain

Can you imagine walking into a relationship counselor for couples counseling. Let me set the scene; a strip-mall office, some counseling degrees hanging on the wall, fake ficus trees, fragrant odor of a glade plug in air freshener, leather couch. You get the idea. Now

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Painful Sex

The medical term for painful intercourse is dyspareunia (dis-puh-ROO-nee-uh), defined as persistent or recurrent genital pain that occurs just before, during or after intercourse. There can be many causes from Vaginismus, psychological issues, stress, surgeries or other medical conditions. I know from having a lick

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Gender

Here’s an email exchange with a reader over the last couple days: Reader– We have a somewhat female led relationship and my husband wears a chastity cage regularly, we do pegging somewhat regularly, is the next step cross-dressing? Emma– Has he expressed interest in cross

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Cropped Eym Title

I started this blog in 2018 after receiving inspiration from the somewhat short-lived FLR101 blog by YogaGirl. Despite her methods being more forceful than what I could see for my own relationship, she was on to something and I was hooked on her blog. Her

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Gender Balance

Gender and roles are incredibly interesting to me. In my blog titled “Real Men Don’t Have Penises” we looked at the differences in gender and how similar both genders actually are. In Vikter’s Q&A blog titled “A Stay At Home Dad’s Tale” we looked at

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