You knew what he was going to ask before he asked it. His body language said it all. He says something awkward like “hey baby, want to get jiggy with it?” You can respond that you have a headache or just tell him the truth that you just don’t feel
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I’ve hesitated to post anything about our new living situation for the last couple weeks because it is new and I really needed to take some time to let it all sink in. Some of the things that were criticisms initially turned out to be some of the more intriguing

People base their self esteem on many different things including their job, material possessions and interpersonal relationships. If their job is going well, they feel good about themselves. If their relationships with friends are going well, they feel good about themselves. For many of us, including myself, sex is an

The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to your relationship. Ultimately the cage and accompanying key symbolize that the man is willing to hand over control for the very organ that defines him as

This question has been sent more than a few times, it seems to be a concern that many guys have when making the decision to add chastity to their sex lives. The average age of readers on this site is in the 55-64 yr old range which seems to be

Gender and roles are incredibly interesting to me. In my blog titled “Real Men Don’t Have Penises” we looked at the differences in gender and how similar both genders actually are. In Vikter’s Q&A blog titled “A Stay At Home Dad’s Tale” we looked at a real life story of

Vikter is a reader and frequent forum contributor that has incorporated some of the principles that I promote in the blog such as male orgasm control and pegging. Additionally, Vikter has also taken on a role of stay at home dad/house husband. In a comment on the blog entitled “Real

A blog about sexuality and I don’t think I’ve ever done a blog about penis size. I should be ashamed of myself. Oh well, time to make amends. Desirability I like to look at large penises. As I said in a previous blog about penises, they fascinate me. Penises fall

When your guy is locked up, communication about his state is important. His level of desire and the importance and urgency of ejaculation is first and foremost on his mind. The rules that you establish together most likely prevent him from constantly pestering you about his current condition and his

This is an ongoing story about my life with Kevin, our neighbor Andrew and the new and interesting dynamic that is coming from our new relationship. You can read previous blogs about our story or you can start here. Either way, enjoy! It was a lazy Saturday afternoon, Kevin and