The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to your relationship. Ultimately the cage and accompanying key symbolize that the man is willing to hand over control for the very organ that defines him as a man. Handing over control can be an absolute mind fuck but the results speak for themselves.

Here are the top few benefits of chastity devices & orgasm control:

  • Appearance
    Sorry fellas, it just looks better
  • Balance
    Sexual balance in your relationship. – The sex barter system
  • Weight loss & Motivation
    Tremendous amounts of energy and motivation.
  • Masturbation habits
    Alter habits that are detrimental to intimacy in the relationship.
  • Mental Benefits
    Chastity has gives control of the physical penis but so much of that is linked to feelings and emotional wellness. Be careful because this can go either way.
  • Many more

…and now, here is a gallery of beautiful caged penises for your viewing pleasure. Most of these are from sheshowhimcaged on Tumblr but a few of them are submitted by members of this very site. I do not own or have rights to any of these images, if you see a picture that you recognize/own and would like me to take it down, please contact me and I’ll be happy to remove it. If you would like to add one, please feel free to contact me.




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Thanks Emma. Always fun to wake up to a fun blog post to get your motor running and your day started.

How exciting to wonder who among us is on intimate display in this blog. Fun!


Emma great post. I have been following for a couple weeks now and finally couraged up to post. Keep up the amazing work. I look forward to your post daily being new and put in 24/7 chastity at 35 yr old.


Emma now that you have two penises in your life, will you try and make them both ideal?


I loved this :-

“Appearance – Sorry fellas, it just looks better.”

and this from the penis size post:-

“I like penises caged when they aren’t being used. I feel like this is part of putting things away and keeping them tidy.” 

They both made me laugh, but at the same time they are so true.

I think they look better too! And I really want to try caging one and putting it away for periods of time, but I’m single for now and not sure when I may get an opportunity. 🙁


Love it. As the bearer of an owned and locked penis I can confirm this the ideal situation for all parties involved.

Emma, is it ok if I post another? I really like the way this photo exudes the authority, control, and ownership she has.

I have been reading and observing this blog for a little while before singing up. This post helped me feel more comfortable with seeing penises caged as my interest really has been piqued, but I have had a hard time getting used to the idea. The information on this blog and the pictures here have me wondering if male chastity really is more common and “normal” than I think. I have decided I do want to give it a try at some point, but I’m not sure how or when. I have come back a couple times the past few days to look at the pictures again. I do really think the penis looks better caged also. 🙂

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I’m proud to have my penis caged and it makes me glad to know how women feel empowered by them. I too want to do my part to help it become more normal as I believe the benefits for males outweigh any warranted concerns and the benefits for females seems like a no-brainer! I definitely think you’re doing your part, Emma, to help get it there as even Brittney’s comment reveals about learning about male chastity through the site. Glad to see increased traffic and comments here along with your regular posts. Here’s to more penises being caged and more women feeling empowered!

Also welcome to you Brittney. We are glad that you are here. I hope you feel comfortable to both share and learn from others in the forum. And I do hope that you get to experience the male chastity lifestyle firsthand soon. I don’t think you’ll be disappointed and I don’t think you’ll look back. 🙂

Ok, here’s one more ideal penis. 🙂 Seriously though, I don’t know if they get any more ideal than this! His caged penis and balls fit perfectly into her hand as if they were designed for her to grip. She is demonstrating the perfect amount of confidence and control in this picture. I feel like it’s a literal perfect picture fora FLR and I just can’t get enough of it. Keep these penises ideal Ladies and let’s go get more caged. 🙂

I really wish my wife would lock my penis, I need it to happen I am so frustrated at being ruled by my libido. I am so tempted to just get one and see how she responds.

Thank you for your advice, I think a discussion on orgasm control is he way forward. My libido really needs taming.


Great post Emma! Have to agree. Locked penises do look better!


I have wondered Emma, I get that the dynamic with Andrew is different but, from a purely aesthetic perspective, would you prefer he be locked as well?

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