Your dick is not big enough to fully satisfy me sexually. I attract younger and more fit men, why would I settle for one man? How do those words feel as you hear them from your beloved? They were difficult for me to say the first time and I didn’t truly mean them the first time or even the second. The more I said those words and words like that, the more I believed them. The truth is, women need constant attention. We need constant reassurance that we are beautiful and reaffirmation of our womanhood and female energy.
Your dick may be of average length, girth or performance. You may not spend half of your leisure time in the gym to get the fitness body that most men can only dream of. Despite that, you most assuredly are not average. A halfway open relationship, cuckold relationship, hotwife relationship or whatever you want to call it has allowed me to understand the mechanics behind exactly what I need and what this sort of relationship does for me. Presumably this applies to others but I can’t speak for them. Sound off in the comments below if this resonates with you and your relationship.
Men seek sexual supply. They seek consistent sexual fulfillment. Although women also seek consistency, it is not as important as sexual novelty. When left to my own devices, I find that I grow weary of most men after only a few encounters. For the most part, the intense sexual connection of a new partner grows stale after the communication, banter and excitement of the new partner goes away.
Cuckolding however is not about the lack of you, it is about the presence of you. Removing you from the scenario does not bring more joy and fulfillment. I’ve learned to love watching the passion and fire in your eyes as another man takes me as his own even if just for tonight. Your firm grasp on my hand and our deep eye contact as he penetrates me says it all. Seeing me squirm and moan in ways that I never do with you says it all. Cuckolding gets a bad rap as a selfish woman’s game but as we seek understanding of the psychological dynamic, we learn sex is a far more intellectual game than it is physical. It isn’t just about finding a man with ripped abs and a big penis. Finding a bull is much harder than that (no, it really is difficult). Once we find a guy who is a physical specimen, I need to have at least a decent emotional bond to be remotely interested.
A cuckold dynamic can take on many forms some of which include humiliation and denial and anything else you want to add to the definition. Yes that is correct, your relationship is whatever you want it to be. You can any words or definitions to define your relationship. I was uncomfortable with the term cuck until Kev and I decided what the word meant to us and accepted it. For a while, I called it poly-friending because the word cuck made me uncomfortable. The word isn’t as important as the definition behind it. Make your relationship what you want and worry about naming it later.
So what is a cuck good for anyway? A cuckold type relationship is a deep emotional bond with a partner that allows external physical exploration. My husband is my cuck and he is my primary emotional connection. Kev and I have sex often but he is not my primary physical and carnal connection, our sex is about maintaining our bond and reconnecting at an intimate and psychological level. We have deep levels of intimacy and we absolutely adore each other. I have Kev and he and I are a rock solid connection that will never waver, our constant communication guarantees it. Since I have Kev and I feel so confident in our bond I don’t have the innate need to constantly impress him or dress sexy for his benefit.
My husband is a wonderful man and his deep love allows me to explore complete physical satisfaction and I couldn’t be more grateful.